I have found lately that one of girl friends that I haven't seen for a few months and have always enjoyed her company I'm thinking about all the time. It's not as if I'd want to have a relationship or anything because I don't think I'm that way inclined, I've always gone out with guys before. But everything seems to remind me of her at the moment and I'm getting a bit freaked ut about it. Am I gay??
2006-11-12 21:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by Yodeller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, don't freak out! If I had a penny for every friend of mine that wanted to (or did) experiment with someone of the same sex, I'd have a penny from every friend. Not even kidding. I'm gay myself, so many people feel comfortable telling me when they want to dip their big toe in the gay pool, so to speak. Sometimes it's because a girl is just sick of men altogether, sometimes they're in your situation, sometimes they just want to try something new... the reasons are limitless and all are totally rational. I'm guessing that because this is a friend of yours that you are not gay... being attracted to a friend of any sex in normal, even I find myself having temporary attractions for my girlfriends.... but always temporary. If this attraction persists and grows stronger, then I would encourage you to pursue it.. although I'm not sure whether your friend is gay or bi or what. Tell her what you're feeling as long as it wont freak her out. maybe get some advice from your closest friends. If you continue to feel this way about other girls too, then you may be gay and that's okay.. it's a scary thought I know, but once you know who you like you'll learn to love who you are. fact. But if I gave a penny for every friend who wanted to experiment and ended up gay, I'd probably only have to give up a couple, if that. Do what feels right...that's my philosophy. ♡
I hope I could help!!
2006-11-12 21:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by thesekeys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Often more than not close friendship can often be confused with having a relationship. If you think about your friend all the time, this does not mean that you want a relationship with her. It could just mean that the bond of friendship is really tight. These are known as your kindred spirits.
2006-11-12 21:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by typical_123 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No I think you may be curios or you are confused with the feelings and the fact you go out with guys means if anything bi
2006-11-12 21:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only be honest with him. in case you adult males have been buddies for years then he shouldn't get mad or unhappy or something like that. he will comprehend. and consistent with hazard he only mandatory the convenience you have been giving him and did not incredibly advise it. You wont comprehend till you confer with him quite.
2016-10-22 00:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by delcampo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why man created the platonic relationship...
2006-11-12 21:45:48 · answer #5 · answered by DrunkenDialer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only if you find yourself "Licking" your friend!
2006-11-12 21:51:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No
2006-11-12 21:45:40 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no.
2006-11-12 21:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by space case 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋