i split from my fiance of 6 yrs 8 months ago. we had our own place.he has since moved away. when i was with my ex i met this guy.he wasnt a friend of my ex but he knew my ex.
we swapped no's coz we are in the same career.he said he wished he could meet someone like me but knew i was engaged.he kept texting me to meet up but i didnt coz i was in a relationship.i did like him tho.
my ex at the time had a go at him about the texts.since ive split from my ex(not coz of this guy)i have met up with him a few times.he still texts me like before.we have only kissed eachother despite him wanting to take "things" further.
we live in different towns & only meet up if we are out in the same town on the same nite.he always compliments me & says that im a nice girl.he asked me if i was enjoying the single life.i said i was.
why hasnt he asked me out properly?does he like me?is he giving me space coz of my ex?was the Q about the single life his was of seeing if i was ready to move on?
2006-11-12 21:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ive know this guy for over a year now and his behaviour hasnt changed in anyway towards me. he still texts me all the same.
does the fact that hes been "chasing" me this long mean anything?
2006-11-12 21:39:44 · update #1
I know it was wrong for him to contact me when i was in a relationship, is he genuine?
2006-11-12 21:40:51 · update #2
when we are together he always compliments me, asks me what my future plans are etc. hes always around me and makes conversation with me. i always catch him looking at me too.
2006-11-12 21:42:27 · update #3
His behaviour hasnt changed in anyway towards me since ive split with my ex. is that a good thing?wouldnt he have "given up" by now if he wasnt really interested in me?
2006-11-12 21:44:32 · update #4
Maybe you shouldn't said that you like being single
thats what might have put him off asking you out
or maybe he is giving you some space to get over you ex...unless your already over him...but if u really like him and want to go out with him then ask him
he doesn't have to ask you
maybe hes just nervous that you'll say no...
2006-11-13 01:54:58 · answer #1 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that whatever will be will be Hun... don't pressure anything to happen let it occur naturally. Just be careful it isn't just sex he's after, you say he wants to take things further in that department but yet hasn't asked you out yet which makes me wonder if he will... You're doing the right thing holding back till he's made his intentions clear. But sometimes the best thing to do is ask.
2006-11-13 05:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow hon if it turns to be more than friends then so be it
but i think you do need a bit of you time you have been in a relasionship for so long you may need a bit of thinky time.
if there is a bit abit of a spark between you too
2006-11-13 05:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by moodycow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this guy is maybe just out for one thing!!! if he hasnt showed u n e thing new in the last year or hasnt asked u out then get out their n find sumone who wants to b with you n shows it!!
get rid of him and hit the town xxx
2006-11-13 05:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by sweetchick18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants a shag?
2006-11-13 05:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Perseus 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋