Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

I need an excuse to call my friend...We're in a fight, but I need to call her so she'll go online. But I need an excuse. She wants to make up, so is not like she totally hates me. But why would I call someone who I'm fighting with? Plausible excuse, please.

2006-11-12 11:06:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've broken up with my boyfriend twice already but he tells me that he wants to be with me and stuff like that and cries but i don't know if hes faking or for reals because he never really has time for me and is always making excuses (I think but who knows his side of the story) but I just don't think its gonna work out!!!!

2006-11-12 11:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by lil.sanz 2 in Singles & Dating

This is me, five nine and 127 pounds...I get all the looks and all...but when there gfs arrive they are usually really short or short and fat.
This is annoying as hell...even talllll men only want the short ones.
This is not about my attitude either...just height difference and annoyance.
Are there any men who are tall that would rather go out with a tall women???

2006-11-12 11:05:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 11:05:46 · 20 answers · asked by hos_1978 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This may sound full of it, but in reality I get asked out at least once a week, and I don't go clubbing. I get asked out when I eat at restaurants, or walk on campus etc.

Thing is, I HAVE NO BODY! I basically have the smallest breasts I've ever seen, and I don't wear padded bras because I don't want to create an illusion of something that does not exist. I am 5'5", 105 pounds, and have a BMI of around 17.5, which qualifies as "anorexic." I have been called "very pretty" and "very beautiful" and have been asked to model, but seriously I have no body...what's up with this? Guys tell me the body is important in qualifying a girl as hot, and I'm basically a stick. So why do guys find me attractive? I even dislike my own body....

2006-11-12 11:05:45 · 17 answers · asked by Kristin 1 in Singles & Dating

My parens have made life hell since I've gotten engaged. They do not like my fiance and have been very close minded about things if they do not agree with them. They want me to be their "baby girl" until the day I get married. I got so fed up that I left and told them I was moving in with my fiance. They say that they are very hurt and upset that I left and they blame my fiance. I just want to find harmony. I would go back and live with them if they would ease up on me and let me be an adult (I'm 26 years old, respsonsible, have a good job). I know I hurt them and that hurts me but they've been so hard to work with in this engagment. What is supposed to be the happiest time of my life has been miserable.

2006-11-12 11:05:11 · 10 answers · asked by Kimberly P 2 in Weddings

we've been dating for 4 months now, and he's 16 years older than I'am!! I know I truly fell for him, he tells me he loves me. But at times were silent towards eachother!!! Somtimes I don't know what to talk about with him, were somehow a like as a person but I think were too alike. Is this good for a relationship? oR what more can I do to make this relationship interesting?

2006-11-12 11:05:00 · 11 answers · asked by im a keeper 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for over a year now. My husband is the type to come home from work kiss me on the cheek and tell me how his day went. If I'm sitting at home looking decent with makeup my hair done and just looking pretty for him he wont notice until I comment about it. He does this always and its a constant argument. Well today I look nice, I'm wearing low cut shirt and got nice makeup on (the whole deal) but I'm with him I wear this for him well I show up at a convient store ask him if he wants to get down he says "NO" well inside the store 2 men hit on me and I comment about it in the car. NOW HE'S MAD. ..The way I see it is If I look good why not acompany me so people know I'm married and or have a man in genaral!? If he were looking Good I would not let him anywhere by him self. I think he's being very unreasonable, because he needs to take care of what he's got! What do you think??

2006-11-12 11:04:05 · 16 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 11:03:43 · 2 answers · asked by FREDRICK L 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, there is this man I know who is roughly 20 years older than me. (I'm 24 and female) I neither like him nor dislike him. When we first met through a friend, we spoke a little bit, but nothing that meant anything. After that, I noticed that when he thought I wasn't looking at him (I saw him from the corner of my eye) he would stare at me (gosh that man has blue eyes!) When I look at him, however, he avoids my eyes like the plague. There was one time I saw him in the parking lot while he was talking to someone else, I looked his way, and he stared at me. I once saw him at the grocery store, he saw me, and darted the other way. "Okay" I thought "Fine if you don't like me and want to avoid me, I don't care!" Two meetings ago (after it was a while since I last saw him) he was open and friendly and asked how I was. I thought he was just being polite, since I basically bumped into him. The last meeting, we were at a party of the friend's house. He still avoided eye contact

2006-11-12 11:03:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy at my school who likes me, a LOT, and i really don't like him! but all the time he's telling me how much he loves me and how beautiful i am and whatnot, and he calls me pretty much every day. it's getting annoying and i appreciate the compliments but to an extent he needs to calm down and leave me alone. what should i do without pissing him off?

2006-11-12 11:02:10 · 21 answers · asked by itsjennbabyy 3 in Singles & Dating

please write me and share something funny with me. and then i can make someone else laugh. i haven't had a very good laugh lately. please help me out ok.

2006-11-12 11:02:01 · 3 answers · asked by cutemay1 2 in Friends

I would like to know if there is any christion goth out there like me.

2006-11-12 11:01:56 · 9 answers · asked by dragonrider 2 in Friends

My bf keeps accusing me of being a lesbian. Just because I like chicks with big boobs and blonde hair doesn't mean anything. I don't want to be with a woman....at least I don't think so. I know if he keeps getting on my case I'm kicking him to the curb and possibly seeing if the grass is greener on the other side.

2006-11-12 11:00:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months?

2006-11-12 11:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I discovered all these cell calls to and from the same cell . I looked it up on line and found her address. Found out it was the barmaid at a local bar . This killed me. Im a strong person but this did me in . He finally said he messed up and said it was over with her. when I showed him the detailed phone bill, that it wasn't over he threw a fit . Then realizing how much he could lose he told me it was a mistake and WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN !!!!!! well now he gets about 6 to 8 restricted calls a day &txt messages every day. so he is still up to no good . He says there is nothing going on but why sneak around behind my & her husbands back ???? should I contact her husband & get his opinion? Can two people talk & meet up all the time ¬ be having an affair???

2006-11-12 11:00:25 · 24 answers · asked by amber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have your first kiss
have your first boyfriend( like real, going places with them not an 'in school' boyfriend
and did your parents want to meet them when you go out with them, my parents are like i want to meet them and maybe their parent what should i do?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?! is this weird, guys would you be weirded out
should i sneak behind my parents?
will it clear up later?
im only 13 and havent had a boyfird or kiss yet, is that wierd?

2006-11-12 10:59:38 · 16 answers · asked by erin 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, its not that i dont like the guy, thats not at all the problem. i just hate being tied down to once guy. its only been one week and i wanna break up with him, but i dont wanna lose him.


how can i get over this. or do i just ignore it?

2006-11-12 10:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by d_asnightnday 1 in Singles & Dating

my family is from southern india, but i was born in usa.me and my husband have a 2 month old son, my husband is going back to india for two months because his mother is dieing from cancer, and i cant go with him. what if they try to marrie him off to some one there? does he have a choise in the matter?

2006-11-12 10:59:18 · 30 answers · asked by solovelyjayanthi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this dude that has been friendly with me for a while (he does in home care for someone in my apartment) he always says hi and makes conversation. Recently he asked for my number and suggested we go out sometime. I thought it was a good idea, but now he just wants to come to my place and this is weird cause I dont even know him. And he sends me text messages with things like "hey baby", "hey sexy". I think maybe I am paranoid but i think this guy just wants to bang me. I think that he found out I was a single mom so he may think I am easy. He has not suggested going out once, just coming to my place. Am I crazy? Just to make it clear, he has not been to my place yet and I dont want to bang him.

2006-11-12 10:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by anonbealove 3 in Singles & Dating

My son won't even send me a fathers day of christmas card and still lives with his mother and is 26 yrs old.

2006-11-12 10:58:27 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family

With Online Dating getting Bigger, and more people having Success. What are some tips that you could give me, and anyone who would read this.

#1 Whats the best tip for getting positive responses when you contact someone.

#2 How many pictures should you post.

#3 What should you say in your profile, and how long should it be.

#4 Whats a great idea or tip for a subject line.

#5 What are some signs of a Great Online Dating site.

Im 23, Thank you.

2006-11-12 10:57:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just been to my husband's apartment (please read my previous question). I am pathetic to keep asking for your opinion but I really don't know what to do and need to get strength from somewhere. It seems he wants to stay there during the week and live as a single person because he has never done anything just for himself , then come home at weekends. We married 19 years ago when he was 22 and I was 35 but he told me he was 27 at the time and believed him, but thats neither here nor there. I asked him what he feels about me and he said he would rather not answer, then when I said that perhaps I should also look to make a life for myself if he wasn't willing to answer, we made love. Later he said jokingly we were great mates, but that wasn't enough for me, I wanted his soul. He makes jokey references to me being wealthy and will I lend him 50 thousand pounds? I am dreading him asking me because he says my love is conditional and I wouldn't give it to him, also in a jokey way.

2006-11-12 10:57:48 · 40 answers · asked by Nancy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright me and my ex have a kid on the way and have been though alot together. and i moved to TN to be with her and her son and that is when things were good but then i did not get a job because she said she liked me being home with her all the time and things started to go down hill we were together 24/7 and we ended up getting into it and she went to her sis's and i moved back to Reno nv and now we are 2200 miles away from eachother and i want nothing more then to be back with her but she wont let me come back she is nice and calls me every night but some days she tells me she hates me and to stay out of her life. and she always says we wont ever be back together but her mom and sis say diffent i would die just to show her how much she means to me. how do i win her love back. i just want to be there with her to raise our kid and have what we did at one time. i have never not worked with her until i moved down there and she told me she liked having me home i know i ****** up

2006-11-12 10:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by kj 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a guy online. We went out on a Friday, met up on Saturday, Sunday and the following Thursday. Everything was going great. We were both into each other and having a good time. He called me the following Saturday and I wasn't home. I called him once the next day, and then once each of the following 2 days. I haven't heard from him since. Any idea what happened? He called me last, and then didn't answer my calls or messages. A few more details: we didn't sleep together, never got close, neither of us pushed for that. I'm just kind of baffled that he disappeared with no explanation. Any help is appreciated.

2006-11-12 10:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by amanda_loo_hoo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:56:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i think my friend may like me IM NOT SURE like he tells me everything about him, he flirts with me, like i also tell him lil stuff example. . who i like and he reacts like ew no hes a jerk and like i IM him stuff my friends say to me like. . "hey sexy or hey baby or i love you" like dumb lil things like that and hes like "ew there fags", but then he IM's me his conversation with what my best friend tells him(( they liked each other at one point ))and im like ok?. . .and i know he still likes her a lil bit. . . but idk but this is why i think he likes me--->ok he came over my house one day to do a project and he kept body slamming me, and like touching me and we were on the computer and he put his head on my shoulder and stuff, and i know i shouldnt like him and i might not but im just confused right now. . like also i was kneeling and hes like "u wanna sit on my lap?" and im like "u wish" and he body slammed me. and he got so close to kissing me like it was so close.

doeshelikeme???

2006-11-12 10:56:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thats me, and alot of women think im too tall, which makes me feel like a freak esp since alot of them are really short.
Is this an ok size for a women?
And why do men only seem to want short women????

2006-11-12 10:56:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any guy that is sick with all the american feminist crap should really look into/start dating asian women. They are beautiful, treat you like a man, and like it when you act like a man. unlike many feminist b**ch american women

2006-11-12 10:56:18 · 12 answers · asked by RICKY 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by Laurie 1 in Marriage & Divorce