I met a guy online. We went out on a Friday, met up on Saturday, Sunday and the following Thursday. Everything was going great. We were both into each other and having a good time. He called me the following Saturday and I wasn't home. I called him once the next day, and then once each of the following 2 days. I haven't heard from him since. Any idea what happened? He called me last, and then didn't answer my calls or messages. A few more details: we didn't sleep together, never got close, neither of us pushed for that. I'm just kind of baffled that he disappeared with no explanation. Any help is appreciated.
2006-11-12 10:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by amanda_loo_hoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're both single and playing the field. I compare that to, for example, surfing the Internet. You surf the Internet, you find a site you like, you click-click-click away----but then, in the blink of an eye, you get up to use the restroom. You then divert your attention to the kitchen and get yourself something to eat. And alas, that great website you found is forgotten---for a bit, anyway. And maybe you don't even resume surfing it until the next day or week or----NEVER. Because the next time you sit down to review a similar topic through Google, you come up with hits on other, comparable sites and you go to THEM instead.
Okay, enough with the online analogy. But you met online, so it seemed to fit nicely. I think women get caught up in the whole "why didn't he call?" conundrum. People acquire and lose interest in each other on the singles scene so easily. It's not something that should be read into, nor taken too personally. This guy probably has other girls he knows or has since met who he likes equally as much, if not more than you. Sounds to me like this hypothetical "other girl" was a mere click away on his computer, perhaps.
2006-11-12 11:04:43 · answer #1 · answered by C J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was abducted by aliens. Seriously, give him a few days, maybe he is super busy and feels he doesn't have a "break" where he can spend it on the phone talking to you. I know I never call my mother because she likes to talk for hours, and I know I don't have the time to be on the phone for hours, so I'll put off calling her for weeks until I have the time to be on the phone for hours. otherwise you might be scaring him if you call, call , call, etc.
2006-11-12 11:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are thinking too much - if it works it works - if he does not call you back , you keep going forward and do not look back - have a good and happy life baby - and remember you are only as happy as YOU want to be
2006-11-12 11:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably trying to keep his friends in his life as well as you too. Then again, he might be like me and become irritated when the girl your dating doesn't answer her phone when you call, but when she calls you are quick to answer. Ooops, too much info.
2006-11-12 11:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a few more days then move on. most of these online guys have alot of girls waiting around for dates with them. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-11-12 11:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His wife probablly clamped down on him, Amanda.
Careful!!! Good luck. Pops
2006-11-12 11:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by Pops 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like you pulled the disappearing act first and he feels like you were avoiding his calls first and he got the hint.
2006-11-12 11:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by clement J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life find someone else
2006-11-12 11:05:01 · answer #9 · answered by Bo V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe that's why, because you didn't sleep with him, unfortunately some guys are like that.
2006-11-12 11:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋