Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

I crushed on a younger guy and some people say his crush is me. Is that normal?

2006-11-12 10:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by Jelly(: 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:19:09 · 11 answers · asked by fernandez8844@sbcglobal.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 10:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by Megan L 2 in Singles & Dating

and shaves everyday. When for the 4 years you were together he didn't put any effort into his appearance and would go without shaving for days and knew you were fine with it.

This change started all of a sudden a couple of weeks ago and on top of that he's been extremely irritated with me. Do you think he could be cheating?

2006-11-12 10:17:05 · 46 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 10:16:53 · 8 answers · asked by lil_frosty93654 3 in Singles & Dating

alright i know...., im not looking to to get posted with messages against abortion. I am honestly looking for people to give any helpful advice. My girlfriend just found out she's 2-3 weeks pregnant. Family situation and other things basically make it were abortion is a must. I know she's hurting right now and so am I. I want to be there for her but she's making it hard for me to be with her right now. Since we found out and came to the decision, I have felt nothing but remorse. I really dont care how bad I feel,i know shes feeling worse. I want to make sure that either way she is ok. I want to be there and say or do something to try and support her. Ive already told her that im here no matter what her final decision is. Can anyone give me insight from personal experiance's? Or advice on what to do or say?

2006-11-12 10:16:35 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister lives about 4 hours away from me. Her boyfriend works overseas 3 weeks out of the month. When she goes on the computer she constantly find porn, and him being a user at dating websites. He says that he just gets bored. And he regularly promises not to do it again. She has never caught him cheating, do you think he is?
Another thing, is it okay to watch porn when your partner is against it?

2006-11-12 10:16:17 · 14 answers · asked by Melton 2 in Marriage & Divorce

just like in gerneral? not for one thing just some advice for life or something. thanx?

2006-11-12 10:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by =]] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd like some professional advice. I have some other women lined up I'd like to frequent, but I don't want to lose old reliable, you know what I mean?

I need to figure out how to change my number for caller ID and stuff this way I can say I'm at work when I'm really calling from the cell phone. My current girlfriend has some hang ups like making me use condoms (I have an STD but usually take medicine) and complains about my drinking and porn. I need to get out once in a while for a good time.

2006-11-12 10:15:57 · 18 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend yesterday while playing soccer accidently, yeah right kicked me in the face we were having a competition and things got carried away,(just so you know we were wearing cleets with metal spikes) my face is swollen and I have a black eye. Then later on when he came to apologize he grabbed me and tried to kiss me so I punched him in the face I got fired because I work at the place where we were playing soccer, a comp then today I got my job back and I told my boyfriend and he wants to beat the tar out of my ex. Is it wrong of me to let my boyfriend do this, I have a big dance thingy to go to tommorow and I have a black eye. After I punched him he said that I had no reason to break up with him except that he cheated on me so I punched him again. He has a broken nose. What do you ppl think about the situation. any advice will be helpfull.Thanks, srry its so long

2006-11-12 10:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by amerine09 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:15:47 · 4 answers · asked by Abena 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

For instance, would you describe yourself like Thierry Henry, sleek, dark, athletic, and always scoring, or more like Phil Neville, running round like a blue-**** fly and coming off before half-time?.

2006-11-12 10:15:25 · 3 answers · asked by Old Man of Coniston!. 5 in Singles & Dating

i really like this one guy and i thinks he kind of likes me but i am not sure and another problem is he is my best friend and if i tell him i like him it might ruin our realationship!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-12 10:14:15 · 29 answers · asked by here to help 1 in Singles & Dating

even if you don't touch them or anything... but you both play with yourself in front of the other person?

just curious. :)

2006-11-12 10:13:39 · 21 answers · asked by Jennifer L 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my husband for 15 years, he was my first and only, but we had some difficult times and in that time I met someone who I am very attracted to and I want to experience something else. I know the right thing to do is to forget this other person and just concentrate on my marriage but it's so hard to not want this.

2006-11-12 10:13:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a pearl necklace, should I except this gift ?

2006-11-12 10:12:29 · 23 answers · asked by amber 2 in Singles & Dating

How many hours per night would you consider to be too many for my 29-year old husband to dedicate to playing xbox, or reading about it on the internet? He says it's his hobby, but I see it as an obessesion. Would you think 4+ hours per day is alot?

2006-11-12 10:12:04 · 29 answers · asked by animal_mother 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He didn't come to school the past few days and my other friend's english teacher told the class that his father had passed away from cancer. I'm really sorry for him. No one at school even knew his dad had cancer to begin with. When he comes back to school, is there anything I can do? I know I can't change the past, and that it's a situation no one can really make better. But i would feel wrong sitting at lunch laughing with friends, while hes going through this. What can I do?

2006-11-12 10:11:50 · 24 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Family

My family treats me like the unofficial emotional punching bag. Whenever something is going wrong in their lives I'm ALWAYS the one who ends up being the blunt of their anger.

I assume that they do this because I'm the only family member who generally doesn't carry grudges and is very forgiving. I do stand up for myself, but that just makes them angrier.

In return for my service as their emotional release, I am not allowed the same privilege. If I EVER blew up in the way that they all do they would never forgive me for it and would in all probability kick me out of the house.

How can I get them to stop treating me this way?

2006-11-12 10:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Dysthymia 6 in Family

I have this friend named Maria she's only 15 years old and has a 10 month old baby.Her baby's dad Jose is in jail, he won't be out for a while and when he does he's getting deported to Mexico.When he was out he treated Maria and the baby like s~h~i~t.Well when the baby was 2 months old Jose's nephew came to live with them(he's only 16).Jose woked but never gave Maria money for the baby,so Jose's nephew gave her all his pay check for the baby.He loves the baby alot.It has been 5 months since Jose's been in jail.Jose's nephew and Maria been going out since than.He buys her and the baby everything they wants.He is really nice and he loves them both alot.They have talked about what they are going to do when Jose gets out,they will split up and still live together and never tell Jose.So do you think it's okay what they're doing?After all Maria is his Aunt.Should she spit up with him now and let him find a girl that doesn't have kids?Oh should they stay together?

2006-11-12 10:10:08 · 12 answers · asked by Beautiful Fat Gurl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the best way to tease my man? what should i do? i want to make him need me so bad that he can't take it

2006-11-12 10:09:34 · 8 answers · asked by theslumbergirl 1 in Singles & Dating

She told me she wanted to only be freinds wiht me becuase she has so much fun wiht me and doesnt want to lose that....what does that mean...she said we may be togeht in the future...i dont understand....help, im stressed out

2006-11-12 10:09:22 · 21 answers · asked by Duff M 2 in Singles & Dating

Hes black and hot

2006-11-12 10:09:08 · 1 answers · asked by Jessica H 3 in Singles & Dating

my wife says mine is my gas haha

2006-11-12 10:08:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to but my friend said its dumb

2006-11-12 10:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and this other guy likes me but so does my ex-boyfriend

i really really like the other guy and i want to go out with him but im afraid of what would happen to my ex boyfriend im afraid he might do something to me or the guy i like

what do i do?

2006-11-12 10:06:43 · 14 answers · asked by *meggie* 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright, i'm sure there are TONS of questions like this out there but every situation is different so here goes...i've fallen for a man that already has a girlfriend. We've been friends for several months and then before i know it we are talking on the phone for hours, sneaking off at work to spend time with eachother and talking about our feelings for one another. From what he tells me the deal with them is that they've been together for a long time, 4 years, and they live in the same house together. He works nights, and she works days so they literally don't spend any time together at all. There is no intimacy, they don't really say a whole lot to eachother and when they do she's usually on his case about something. NOW here is the tricky part, HE says it's just easier to go through the motions this way than disrupting the routine they have, they also have a son together so splitting up with probably get pretty tricky. And yes i have thought about all of this A LOT

2006-11-12 10:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by jessarose143 1 in Singles & Dating

My grandpa passed away last year and now it's only my sister, my grandma, and myself living in the home.

My mother, who doesn't live with us (thank God), is a deadbeat, drug addicted, perpetually ill, manipulative, pathologically lying, person who is constantly putting stress on everyone. My grandma can't seem to decide whether to cut her daughter off completely, or forgive her and try to help her, so there ends up being swings from one extreme to the other. I have decided to cut off contact from my 'mother' and my sister is almost at the same place as myself. If my grandpa were still alive he would have cut my mother off at the time we found out about the drugs, but now he's not here to support my grandma.

My grandma is depressed and angry and every little trial in our lives becomes a big horrible crisis which she "just can't handle anymore". She keeps taking it all out on me because I'm the oficial family "safe person" to take out their feelings on.

2006-11-12 10:06:13 · 7 answers · asked by Dysthymia 6 in Family

ok heres cris he is really hott , he is white but acts totally black but i dont care about that he is nice so i know he likes me cause he looks me over and stuff and i return the favor but he wont make a move how do i get this to go further than it is AND my friends think he is white trash

what to do?

2006-11-12 10:05:04 · 6 answers · asked by Megan L 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to a guy for 2yrs on the phone and after a long long long wile we saw each other last week.am not sure wats goin on cuz he's been acting weird lately is like he not interested or somting wat should i say to him to explain my feelings and the way things are goin...

2006-11-12 10:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating