i have been talking to a guy for 2yrs on the phone and after a long long long wile we saw each other last week.am not sure wats goin on cuz he's been acting weird lately is like he not interested or somting wat should i say to him to explain my feelings and the way things are goin...
2006-11-12 10:04:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him point blank what his problem is?
Remember that you have a mental image of some one that you only talk to on the phone when you meet them it changes in to the reality of what they really look like.
It sounds like to me that you did not match what he imagined.
2006-11-12 10:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get it right.. you been talking to him 2 years. Have you not seen him that long (sounds like that.) I think it's kool you can tell he is acting weird over the phone (you are pretty perceptive I am saying.) I know somebody's going to tell you to come right out and ask what's up.. is he interested? I'd be kinda scared to ask him personally. Is there any way you two can like hook up in person? I think that'd be best right now. (I assume you like him.. sure you do!) I think stuff gets all messed up over the phone. You don't know what he is thinking.. (he might think you don't like him! You never know. I am not all tht good at talking on the phone.) Do ya write one another? Are you good at letters? If you have ahard time on the phone, can't meet, maybe ya could write it down? YOu could always write it down, then toss it.. THEN you'd get some idea of what to say on the phone. If you are scared to talk, you could try this.. K? g'luck.
2006-11-12 18:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship was via phone for 2yrs, if after you meet he starts being weird how do i say this without being mean, honey move on try a face to face relationship this time, say nothing to him unless you want your heart broken.
2006-11-12 18:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is acting weird maybe he don't like you and he is trying to play around his friends or something if he liked yo he would be all up on u and maybe it because ya'll just saw each other get to no him a liitle better okay and see wats happens if it remains the same then he don't like you
2006-11-12 18:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by PiGmeNT OF cOlor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Acting weird??? Well maybe he does not like what he saw in you. Maybe what you were telling him on the phone did not add up in person...So do not pore out your feelings until you know what his are..
2006-11-12 18:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's acting like he's not interested, he's not.
Go ahead and tell him your feelings, but don't expect him to feel the same way.
2006-11-12 18:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tlak to him about.find out why is he a different man after you two met.find out if he's lost interest.you need to know this in case you may have to move on.
2006-11-12 18:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by norrisjohnson2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So now that he seen you in person, he maybe didn't like what you looked like?
2006-11-12 18:06:28 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must not be physically attracted to you sweetie...
2006-11-12 18:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Pretti Poodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe in person your not what he expected. maybe he's just not that into you.
2006-11-12 18:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by michelle b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋