Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

My husband and I have always tried to keep the holidays as equal as possible with Thanksgiving & Christmas Eve with one side and Christmas Day with the other. We now have come across and extremely inconvenient and problematic situation. Since Christmases on my side have always been at Grandma's house (an hour and half away) that is where we do Christmas Eve, when it is our turn with them. My husband has to work at our church's Christmas Eve service until almost 7:00 p.m. then we are now expected to load up two kids (5 & 14 months) and take them out of town for approximately 2 hours to turn around and come back home for Christmas Day here. My aunt and uncle, who care for Grandma, won't budge and move the celebration to my house or my mom's here in town. What should we do?

2006-11-12 10:55:22 · 2 answers · asked by alicia0821 3 in Family

should I use him and get a promotion?

2006-11-12 10:55:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I'm getting really annoyed. There is this boy, obviously, that
I've liked for a while but he's also a friend of mine. Back in June, it seemed
like we really hit it off. People were telling me that he was always talking
about me, and even that we seemed to flirt and follow each other around alot. We
went to a party and he was really sweet and told me that he was glad that we got
to hang out more, then invited me to the movies. We went and he ended up kissing
me. Then out of nowhere, nothing, absolutely nothing, POOF. He actually didn't
talk to me much anymore. School started and now he's talking to me again, and he
keeps telling his friends that he doesn't like me but again, he keeps mentioning
me(thats what his friends say)so I'm just sitting around basically twitching.
I'm so confused. HELP

2006-11-12 10:54:25 · 4 answers · asked by Polalka92. 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so i am a senior in high school, last night was my fall dance.

there was this guy at an afterparty.. but picture this guy: cute but not "hot", SO INNOCENT and realllly really (i cant emphasize enough) SHYYY! he doesnt ever get girls and he is really inexperienced

to make the story short, we ended up upstairs just innocently hanging out. we were havign a great covnersation &laughing. then we kissed (keep in mind, this is an innocent shy guy) but after only like two or three minutes, he was like, "wanna go back downstairs?"

now this has me confused. i know for a fact that im NOT a bad kisser &i didnt have bad breath or anything lol. &i do know that hes definitely into me

a girlfriend who is friends w/ him says that he, being the shy innocent guy who doesnt usually get action, had no idea what to do or was too shy to go further. but i am still confused..i mean what guy doesnt want 2nd or 3rd base after 1st?

any advice is appreciated. please dont say hes just not into me

2006-11-12 10:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't think there has been a night in the 8+ years we've been together that my wife didn't come before I did, which is difficult because she can only have clitoral orgasms.

Not trying to brag, just trying to gauge where I stand next to others in the bedroom.

2006-11-12 10:53:03 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I are planning on moving to Texas and when we do we want to buy a home as opposed to renting.
My wife has a 630 credit rating and I have a 625 credit rating. However, I had a bankruptcy discharge in my name only one year ago.

Will we qualify and what should we expect a monthly payment to be on a $140,000 home. Can we get zero down? What kind of interest rate should we expect?

Any help would be appreciated.
David

2006-11-12 10:52:25 · 4 answers · asked by yanks006 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in a race with another guy to win a girl's heart. i haven't know her for long, but i really really like this girl, and we have so much in common, but she could be falling for the other guy. i ask her out a by the begging of the school year, but she said that she didn't like to go out with guys at the begging of the school year,but she continually is flirting with me. the other guy has a girl, but likes this girl a little bit more then the girl he's going out with and knows her a lot more. i want to know her some more ,I'm telling her Monday ,we should start a new friendship, so we can get to know each other more and little bit later we can step up to the next level. can ya'll give me some advice, tips and thoughts. how are some ways to win a girl's heart

2006-11-12 10:51:51 · 6 answers · asked by jes 3 in Singles & Dating

we felt in love on net ,looking for the right one ,

2006-11-12 10:50:34 · 12 answers · asked by yp_billy_lancaster 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is currently in med school so he is financially in the hole.

Anyway, he indiscretly took a condom home with him last night assuming that I did not notice how many we had used up already since I just bought the box.

Should I assume that he is sleeping with someone else? Or ask him why he stole a condom from my stash. I still can't believe he was so lame in thinking I would not notice.

My gutt tells me that this is bad news especially since I already broke up with him a couple years ago and decided to give him a second a chance.

I am thinking of texting him this message.. "hey i noticed you took one of my condoms home with you last night... should i assume that you are sleeping with someone else? definately puts "things" into perspective..."

What do you guys think?

2006-11-12 10:50:18 · 19 answers · asked by pretty_nice_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy at my church i tried to be nice to him then he was like in love with me he asked me out and i had to say no but now hes in love with me. he is either falsly calling me names or trying to hug me, every week it gets worse i try to avoid him but its hard he thinks its funny. he touches me and he called me honey, love and stuff like that i dont know what to do i want it to stop now! also he is sorta got some problems one time he like freaked out and started cursing at my friend even though she is mean to him i dont want him to hate me but i cant take it anymore

2006-11-12 10:49:37 · 25 answers · asked by sweetmelody14 2 in Singles & Dating

i get to see my cousins every day and i love seeing them, and i love my boyfiend too and i love seeing him too. remember reply back asap. ttyl

2006-11-12 10:49:19 · 12 answers · asked by jack_attack0322 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 10:48:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And that zac is marrying Ashley???

2006-11-12 10:46:53 · 9 answers · asked by hot & single 1 in Friends

Well, my crush and I went to the movies the other night. It was pretty fun, but we didn't get too far... though he DID sit next to me... AND leaned very close to me...

Anyway, I was too shy to make a move (like even grab his hand!), and I've got a feeling he was, too.

Now, though, I think I'm ready... only problem is that I'm not sure when to bring it up... how long should I wait to ask him to the movies with me? He asked me last time, so I should probably do it this time... I don't think I can wait very long, though!

2006-11-12 10:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by Fantasmic 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:45:48 · 14 answers · asked by Abena 2 in Singles & Dating

i got the S!@#%&* kick out of me while i was watching my 3three year old now she wants to think she can beat on me and i tell her fighting is not right but she still will say stuf like im going to whopp daddy and it hurts to hear her say that ! i got caught off gard by two guys when it all happen with out a dought i can bi@#%^ch slap the one im so pissed att and its wrong but i want my daughter to watch me whipp up on him so bad but i know this ant going to fix any thing or make things right GOD FOR GIVE ME PLEASE

2006-11-12 10:45:43 · 2 answers · asked by runninglate 2 in Family

I got a question for you if you, If you was in a relationship
and your partner had a kid with someone one else
who happend to be very up in you face sort of person
inviting them selve round for dinner you know that
your partner is faithful but not sure that there being
true to themselves with regards to your feelings !
who would you say was in the rong! your
partner for letting it happen and constantly
reassurring you that theres nothing in it and
making a big deal out of nothing and that its because of the
child???
I know
it sounds a bit jaring but how would you see the situation?

2006-11-12 10:45:25 · 8 answers · asked by Ladyz7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok there is this guy and we have been hanging out for a while now. He holds my hand and we have had sex, but he also cuddles with me. I like him but I am 4 months pregnant and am scared. I don't know if i should say something to him or just continue to be friends. We talk everyday and he is so gentle and caring. Does he like me or is it just my imagination.

2006-11-12 10:44:42 · 7 answers · asked by stormysunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend had sex a week ago now and his girl friend is saying that she is 4 days late on her period. what should he do cuz he is afraid he doesnt know what to do he spoke to her about taking the morning after pill and she hasnt taken it

2006-11-12 10:44:11 · 14 answers · asked by Katie P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

study, how could I be so stupid?

WHAT DO I DO?

2006-11-12 10:44:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that he is into looking at and buying porn. It bothers me and he knows this and says that he will stop, but then somewhere down the road I find him doing it again. Is this a pety thing that shouldn't bother me? Does looking at porn mean that he doesn't love me? Wanting answers and opinions from both male and female. Open to any response.

2006-11-12 10:43:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Singles & Dating

I am but in my opinion it doesnt make one special it just makes them secluded. I am just curious what others believe.

2006-11-12 10:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Epidemic 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:42:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-12 10:42:19 · 8 answers · asked by carla 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 10:42:15 · 2 answers · asked by Golden Oscar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK! there is this guy on my messenger list (Angad its not u!) anyway this guy is on my messenger list and he is sooo boring i can't stand him! he is sooo boring! i hav no clue what to do and i can't block him coz that's mean and i tried to b invisible but it's not working! Plzz help!

2006-11-12 10:42:09 · 6 answers · asked by Renée 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF gave me a gift that his EX gave him, i really like him but I don't know what to do. Can you help me PLEASE!!!

2006-11-12 10:41:51 · 22 answers · asked by SammieNoel 3 in Singles & Dating

i reallly love him and would like to settle down for good with him,and hopefully soon marry him,but he is going to prison shortly and i dont know how long for,but the problem is before i meet him i was with my ex for 7 years and was to marry him twice but it never happened.what do you reckon?am i jink;s where marraige is concered?

2006-11-12 10:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me & my boyfriend have been dating for a year. im just curious about date ideas. im just beginning to run out, and i just could use some input from both males & females about what they think is fun or the best date they went on, or just any positive input is appreciated.. oh and if it helps we are both 17

2006-11-12 10:40:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok there is this really hott boy at school he flirts with a lot of girls but he never asks any of them out. he's not in any of my classes and i rarely see him besides in gym and in the hallway. his locker is right next to my best friends locker so i see him in the hallway a lot. but.... i want to ask him out REALLY BAD but my peers are all against girls asking guys out and the guy has to ask the girl out. WHAT DO I DO?

2006-11-12 10:39:45 · 7 answers · asked by yankee gal 2 in Singles & Dating