I have been with this guy for about 4 years now and I know that he is into looking at and buying porn. It bothers me and he knows this and says that he will stop, but then somewhere down the road I find him doing it again. Is this a pety thing that shouldn't bother me? Does looking at porn mean that he doesn't love me? Wanting answers and opinions from both male and female. Open to any response.
2006-11-12 10:43:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be careful that he isn't interested in the really sick perverted stuff such as beastiality, s&m and chld porn. If he starts to look at gay porn then dump his *** immediately. That would be the first sign of trouble.
2006-11-12 10:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by maddog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-21 10:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean he do not love you at all but he may have a little problem with it or it is just a phase he is going through. It is also a lack of respect to you. Have you ever watch some with him if so then you have tried. Ask him how would he feel if you where to start looking at dating pictures and let him know you are not looking for anyone but you just want to flirt a little and to see who may flirt back with you if he say No he doesn't want that then tell him to stop for a while and ask him to show that lust towards you.
2006-11-12 10:54:08 · answer #3 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont listen to people who say its ok and its normal because its not, dont listen to people whosay it will make your sex life better because it wont, the time he spends looking at porn could be the time he should be spending with you. I am in the same situation as you at the moment and I only get sex once a month and his porn collection gets attention atleast 10 times a month, your sex life while disappear, you will have no self confidence, you will start to get depressed, leave now if you can.
2006-11-12 10:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by ros_0123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will forever find heartache with this man. If he loved you I believe that he would not want to hurt you. Pornography is a sickness and evil straight from the devil. The worst thing is the more men look at it, the worse they get. The thrill goes away and then they get into child porn. Please let him go because he won't change, you can do better! Pray for him, that is all you can do.
2006-11-12 10:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't keep dating him because if hes not satisfied with Ur body and he keeps telling that he'll stop and then u find out he lied and did it again id say he isn't a keeper.
2006-11-12 10:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advantages: Better sex, and thats about it.
Disadvantes: Pervert, Loses interest in you, Pervert, Loves the videos more than you, Pervert, Always smells like it, Did I mention pervert.
2006-11-12 10:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Buy him this book, "Everyman's Battle" if you can't find it in regular book stores, check out the christian book stores.
2006-11-12 11:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he's not looking at gay porn.
2006-11-12 10:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes...why wouldn't you date a guy who likes porn and what guy doesn't...also, i still don't see why women have such a problem with this.
2006-11-12 10:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋