I am but in my opinion it doesnt make one special it just makes them secluded. I am just curious what others believe.
2006-11-12 10:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Epidemic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Vonnda i am a guy.... -.-
2006-11-12 12:18:29 · update #1
Indeed many people care when you are a virgin. In this era of technology, peer pressure and influence in lifestyles it is hard to imagine one being a virgin. Being so tells a lot about what you are and the self control you have. It is a virtue few people have nowadays. Once they get married, it is hard for them to cheat because it is something they were not used to
2006-11-12 10:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay one and don't let peer pressure get the best of you. I gave in because of the pressure (year's ago) and ended up pregnant and alone. I wish I had been strong enough to avoid the pressure, but I wasn't. Stay secluded if it keeps you a virgin, find others to hang out with, but losing your virginity doesn't make you poplar = then you will have to worry about the rumors and the guys that want to get involved just for sex because you a no longer a virgin - then once you run into the guy of your dreams and you are not a virgin you will have to deal with how he feels about how many guys you have slept with. I could go on and on and on, but the bottom line is stay a virgin and the HELL with the rest
2006-11-12 18:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A virgin depends how old you are,if you are of age have the sex and not be secluded,life is short we are here today and gone tomorrow,we never know what each day will bring,saving for marriage could be a lost,you may not make it that long and you don't want to go without never knowing how good sex really is and how you can make your partner feel also.
2006-11-12 18:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until I was 21. And I had sex with my high school sweet heart of three years.
A lot of people will tell you it's good to wait. Other people will make you feel secluded.
What happened to me, is that more experienced people (people who were not virgins), talked down to me about sex, as if I knew nothing about it...... (This really aggravated me.)
Because of it, I often struggled with feeling I was "not a real woman" or some nonsense... but then I got over it. And I realized that I don't have to make it known to everyone -- it's really noone's business anyway!
DON'T FEEL PRESSURED TO HAVE SEX. EVER. :)
2006-11-12 18:49:40 · answer #4 · answered by curiousity_killed_the_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two answers
First in the real world...it is like not knowing how to ride a bike or drive a car it is an essential skill and great fun......
Second....on here....everyone as they are religious fanatics, puritans and geeks....sooner you start the more fun and a better life you will have.......
2006-11-12 18:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to that is it should be important to you and you need to care about your self because when push comes to shove you are the only one that you can rely on. If you do not care do not expect any one else to
2006-11-12 18:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really makes very little difference any more.
I took my wife's virginity when I started dating her...
About 9 months before we got married...
No.....She was not pregnant....
2006-11-12 18:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have sex before you are married for five years, you will be thrust into the depths of hell, and then rammed into the bowels of satan.
2006-11-12 18:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kenny Smooth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the majority, no-one
2006-11-12 18:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care, but to each his own
2006-11-12 18:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋