i reallly love him and would like to settle down for good with him,and hopefully soon marry him,but he is going to prison shortly and i dont know how long for,but the problem is before i meet him i was with my ex for 7 years and was to marry him twice but it never happened.what do you reckon?am i jink;s where marraige is concered?
2006-11-12 10:41:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since he's going to prison I assume he is "guilty as charged."
You've only been with him for a few months. Is this the man you want to share your life with and be the father and role model for your children?
I don't think you're jinxed. I think you've just made some bad choices. Maybe it's time to re-evaluate what you're looking for as a lifetime partner.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 10:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by janisko 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't believe in "jinxes". I think you may just be attracting the wrong sort.
Evaluate what it is you want out of a relationship...sounds to me like you want to get married; so you want someone who can commit and leads a lifestlye condusive to settling down.
Being with someone for four months sure can stir up a lot of emotions. But, you don't really know that much about someone at that point, even if you hang out 24/7...there are just so many little quirks about a person that takes time.
I wish you luck in reevaluating what it is you're looking for in a person. It may be something to consider one day looking online.
2006-11-12 10:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
currant boyfriend - like a ginger bread man?? Or your current boyfriend, i dont think you are a jink - I thinkt he blokes you pick are,why not wait and see how you feel while hes inside and see if you still want to visit????? The decision is yours but after 4 months I wouldnt marry someone - espcecially if they were going to prison, however I may if they had no record, as thaty testifies to their character and true nature
2006-11-12 10:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you seem to be having a bad time. I wonder if this new guy was a rebound following the end of your long term relationship? As others have said he may not be a reliable partner or support for you and your family in the future. Think very carefully for if your heart rules your head you may pay dearly for it later. Remember men are like buses there will be another one you can catch!!
2006-11-12 12:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? You want to marry someone you've been with for 4 months and is getting ready to go to prison? Yes, I think you are jinxed as far as your choice of partners, I mean come on! Pick better men. There is no way in he** I would marry anyone thats been in prison, let alone date them. Maybe you need some counseling.
2006-11-12 10:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh bless you, you are not a jinx. Looking for Love and marriage does not mean you have found the person you should do this with. Maybe fate is trying to say hold back for the right guy, sorry. Good luck
2006-11-12 10:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by jelly1909 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really not sure why you would want to stay with or consider marrying a criminal not only is his life going to be over with you will be dragged down with him leave this guy and find yourself a good guy and stop dating the bad boys when will you girls learn?
2006-11-12 10:55:02 · answer #7 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are on the rebound and in lust not love from how this sounds an a bet when your current boyfriend goes to prison you will be back with your ex because you are lonely . how do i know because i have been there an done it.
2006-11-12 13:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, girl----wherever you meet these losers, STOP going there!
He is going to PRISON!!!!!!
He will come out even WORSE!
You need to go meet a man at CHURCH or something! You are not a jinx, but you are with the wrong men.
2006-11-12 10:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I think you must be thick or hard up and completely desperate to be with a man who is on his way to prison,what is the matter with you, is someone better than no one? You love him.....oh please.......wake up and smell the coffee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Who did you say you were.desperately seeking Susan?
2006-11-13 21:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋