ok so i am a senior in high school, last night was my fall dance.
there was this guy at an afterparty.. but picture this guy: cute but not "hot", SO INNOCENT and realllly really (i cant emphasize enough) SHYYY! he doesnt ever get girls and he is really inexperienced
to make the story short, we ended up upstairs just innocently hanging out. we were havign a great covnersation &laughing. then we kissed (keep in mind, this is an innocent shy guy) but after only like two or three minutes, he was like, "wanna go back downstairs?"
now this has me confused. i know for a fact that im NOT a bad kisser &i didnt have bad breath or anything lol. &i do know that hes definitely into me
a girlfriend who is friends w/ him says that he, being the shy innocent guy who doesnt usually get action, had no idea what to do or was too shy to go further. but i am still confused..i mean what guy doesnt want 2nd or 3rd base after 1st?
any advice is appreciated. please dont say hes just not into me
2006-11-12 10:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
like is that normal for inexperienced guys?
2006-11-12 11:09:30 · update #1
Maybe he wants to get to know you first before he goes any deeper and like you said '"he is inexperienced". Give him some time to feel more comfortable with you like talking or hanging out with you more often. He doesn't know you like that and his afraid of what will happen after the kiss.
2006-11-12 11:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by judy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be completely honest from a guys point of view. Not all guys want 2nd and 3rd after 1st. I know I am somewhat of the way this guy seems to be. I have been in the same situation before. Maybe he really likes you and would like more. But does not want to rush things. I mean with me and my girl we were together 2 months before we really started even kissing. I was inexperienced and liked her alot. I did not want to press issues or press other things and push her away. That may be what is going through his mind. Lets face it in society today guys are considered to be nothing more than "horn dogs" that think only with other parts of their anatomy. So he may not want you to think that is how he is. I was scared to death the first time me and her actually did anything in fear of her thinking that I was taking things to fast. Now if you like him talk to him about it. He may see that you do not mind it and that he has nothing to be scared of. Guys that are shy need reassurance. As macho as we act we are nothing more than a sniveling pile of emotion that has no idea what to do until we are 100% sure of what her feelings are. Good luck.
2006-11-12 21:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by miliardo_by_moonlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. She might in comparison to you anymore pondering you probably did not make the attempt interior the previous 2 years. If even with the undeniable fact that, you like her to get you to love you back, you will might desire to make the attempt. consult from her, be there for her, (a chum). -.- I used to love this guy, I had a weigh down on him 3 years, on no account made an attempt to chat to me until we've been going to graduate from HS. finally, I moved on.
2016-11-23 18:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has more respect for you than you think . There are still guys out there who are taught to respect rather than jump your bones .
By the way we all know about the 10 points sweetie .
2006-11-12 11:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes shy duh hes never been kissed befor you caught him off gard or hes gay and in the closet and what you did was so totally gross
2006-11-12 10:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by kelly r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋