Cheating boyfriend?

Question

My sister lives about 4 hours away from me. Her boyfriend works overseas 3 weeks out of the month. When she goes on the computer she constantly find porn, and him being a user at dating websites. He says that he just gets bored. And he regularly promises not to do it again. She has never caught him cheating, do you think he is?
Another thing, is it okay to watch porn when your partner is against it?

Answer 1

Sorry but that is still cheating any way you want to look at it. If they look at another person like that it is cheating. Whether it is on the computer, magazine, video, etc. it is cheating. My motto on cheating is: Don't say or do anything that you won't say or do in front of your mate, (wife, husband, bf, bf, etc). Why can't you look at your own mate that way, are they not good enough that you have to look at some one else?

Answer 2

if your partner is against porn then you should stay away. I think you should be an adult before you watch that kind of stuff. maybe he is cheating you should look more into the matter and find out. If you feel somethings up do something about.

Answer 3

Well, cheating is infidelity in my book, since they are not married he isn't really cheating. As boyfriend and girlfriend what long term commitment do they really have?

As for his habit or addiction to porn and going to dating websites I would suggest that he is unhappy in his current relationshp and is looking for something on the side.

Another bad sign is his being gone for three weeks out of the month. My guess is he is going out when he is gone. He comes home, and the only thing he is being honest about is being bored. (bored with his current relationship)

Answer 4

Porn isn't the problem. Right now it's the dateing sights. Once a person goes there, their looking or already cheating.

IF he's bored, has he ever heard of picking up a good book and reading it?

I'd say he's cheating.

Answer 5

Yea, he probably is cheating, sounds pretty fishy to me . Why would he be a user on a dating website. I don't think it's ok to view porn if your partner doesn't want you too, why would you need porn, if you have a partner?

Answer 6

Online cheating is still cheating. I would say if she has a problem with it, regardless of wether or not it is cheating, then he needs to stop or she needs to leave. And with him being gone for 3 weeks at a time, looking at porn and dating sites, I would say there is very very slim chance he is not cheating.

Answer 7

Since your sister has so many issues with porn and her boyfriend enjoys it maybe it is time for her to find another boyfriend..And have her stop looking into the computer to find his stuff, Boy friend Not HUSBAND<<<

Answer 8

Porn maybe alright,but dating websties is a no no,she needs to dump him.He may be trying tp line someone up for him where ever he gos to work for those 3 weeks.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

He don't really have to be cheating, just curious. Watching porn while you partner is against it can best be solved if one respects the view of the other.... POINT: Don't watch it in her presence, and she respect his view for such material.