was seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months?
2006-11-12 11:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to add on, when I intially text messaged me, after I asked him about the earrings, he said you didn;t thank u, that's exaclty what he text then, I asked him if he could look around at his house, I waited for a few hours and never got a response, so then I left him a voicemail, explaining that my mom gave me those earrings, and I needed them because I was going out later on that night on a date, then five minutes later I get a text message, from him saying exaclty don;t call me anymore, I asked him damn, why? what happened? and the first thing he said was , I don't like u, and he told me that if I called hima gain, he would put my business out in the street, and he would tell all my sorority members, and then went on to say that he does have a girlfriemd,. and she is a member of my sorority...
plus when I did fina;;y return his best friend calls, she said that she wanted me to go help out with this politcal rally he happended to be hosting, and then she lied and said it was over..
2006-11-12 11:02:28 · update #1
Be cautious she may have found out something and wants some revenge.
2006-11-12 11:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other people are right -- sounds like a messed up situtation all around, and you'd best just stay away from it. Nothing good can ever come from a guy who acts like that.
As far as the girl who got back in touch with you, I would not simply show up. Insist you talk to her on the phone or meet her for coffee before you go to any party. That way, no surprises for you.
Like I said before, that guy sounds like a real jerk, and you don't need him in your life at all.
2006-11-12 11:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by cirque de lune 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was only after one thing. More than likely his girlfriend was there and started giving him hell, so he made up some lie saying that you were chasing him. Go to her and be straight up, she needs to know the truth. She may not believe you so you may have to ask her to look for your earrings and that you don't want no trouble he never told you that he was dating anyone and your sorry. You would never date someone who was already taken. Even if she don't believe you, she will respect you for telling her.
2006-11-12 11:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by magicallybeautiful10plus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, that sounds really bizarre...
I would probably be glad you ended up out of the relationship with the guy who sounds remarkable unstable in the first place...
Honestly though, I would watch the friend... Of course I am VERY suspicious by nature...
2006-11-12 11:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by D B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. i realized on the prompt that I even ought to pay for my first semester of faculty out of pocket. 2. i'm not confident if i am going to split with my boyfriend. 3. I nonetheless have not found perfect finished time employment yet.
2016-11-29 02:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, even though you're in college, it seems like you are getting involved with people who are immature. Stay away from them. Maybe she does know something. Be cautious.
2006-11-12 11:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you ought to forget about those earrings. Thses people are strange. Don't do anything just stay away from them all.
2006-11-12 11:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by lightfootspirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose them both. Forget the earrings ! You have been royally played!
2006-11-12 12:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say sorority I assume you are in college but they are defiantly acting high school and no good can come of it STEER CLEAR!!
2006-11-12 11:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away and count yourself lucky. Sever all contact.
2006-11-12 11:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋