we've been dating for 4 months now, and he's 16 years older than I'am!! I know I truly fell for him, he tells me he loves me. But at times were silent towards eachother!!! Somtimes I don't know what to talk about with him, were somehow a like as a person but I think were too alike. Is this good for a relationship? oR what more can I do to make this relationship interesting?
2006-11-12 11:05:00 · 11 answers · asked by im a keeper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you think its all about sex then you should already know its not going to be a good relationship.And yes sometimes when a couple is too alike they tend to lose the love and passion of the relationship qiucker then those who have their own mind.You should go for men around your age.*
2006-11-12 11:09:18 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you DON'T have sex.
Considering the fact that this guy is 16 years older than you... it sounds like he's just in it for the sex. And considering the fact that you think this relationship isn't good.... then yeah, it sounds like this is just based on sex.
2006-11-12 11:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get hung up on the silence. Sometimes it's nice just to be with someone. If you're really uncomfortable, than maybe that's something you can talk to him about ! :)
As men, we (usually) complain that our women talk too much.
I say, don't worry about it, and don't force it.
If you want to know if it's about the sex, cut him off for a while and see what happens. You'll find out pretty quick if he's just in it for the sex.
2006-11-12 16:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by heywazzupdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask or tell him you want to go to the country and try wine tasteing and spend the day out with him and you need to get out and tell him the sex is great but you want more see what happens he just might say okay and tell you are all that and a bag of chips.
2006-11-12 11:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to get more out of him as him if you are what he wants and i garueenty he gives you and answer like i love you baby and you are the only gurl i want and if he dosent that means he is all about sex but ask your self is that all you want or are you ready for a much bigger step
2006-11-12 11:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP HAVING SEX! Then see what happens to the relationship. Whatever happens will be very revealing.
2006-11-12 11:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow I would personally call that lucky. I would give anythin' 4 a guy 2 have sex with me. But, thats me....ask him if it is about sex.
2006-11-12 11:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by hot & single 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with sex. Personally... I wouldn't be dating this guy for sex... but then that's just me.
2006-11-12 11:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone younger to play with on the side ( just don't get caught)
2006-11-12 11:15:49 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take away the sex and see if he still loves you.
sorry, but im not too sure hes a winner.
2006-11-12 11:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋