Alright me and my ex have a kid on the way and have been though alot together. and i moved to TN to be with her and her son and that is when things were good but then i did not get a job because she said she liked me being home with her all the time and things started to go down hill we were together 24/7 and we ended up getting into it and she went to her sis's and i moved back to Reno nv and now we are 2200 miles away from eachother and i want nothing more then to be back with her but she wont let me come back she is nice and calls me every night but some days she tells me she hates me and to stay out of her life. and she always says we wont ever be back together but her mom and sis say diffent i would die just to show her how much she means to me. how do i win her love back. i just want to be there with her to raise our kid and have what we did at one time. i have never not worked with her until i moved down there and she told me she liked having me home i know i ****** up
2006-11-12 10:57:47 · 2 answers · asked by kj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but she is my everything and i cant lose her it would kill me how do i fix what i have done.
2006-11-12 10:58:37 · update #1
i send her money and things for our baby every thime i get paid and want to be there more then any thing she dose not work i have always taken care of her and love doing it because i love her and i will still do it for my kid even though she has 5 1/2 mo to go but i cant live with the though of not having her or her being with someone diffent. she is my world still every time my phone rings i pick it up as fast as i can because a part of me hopes it her calling to tell me to come home. how do i get her to understand what she is to me and that i maynot have been all that i should of to her in the past but i can be and want things to be like they were.
2006-11-12 11:21:40 · update #2
What YOU did wrong? You aren't the bad guy in this situation. You need to tell HER to grow up. She's about to have a baby and she's acting like this? Is she bipolar?? She wanted you around her all the time? You should have been working (or at least trying to find a job), regardless. Who is going to support this baby? The tax payers? I wouldn't even bother getting back with her if I were you. I'm sure she's just going to rack you for child support. If she does that (and even if she doesn't), I'd make sure you at least get court-ordered visitation.
Seriously, I think she's just mental. Hopefully, it's just pregnancy-related hormones and she'll stop being such a jerk after she has the baby. Good luck!
2006-11-12 11:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and get things back and her saying how much she loves you and than talk about moving in with her and stuff and once you have completed all that than tell her that you want to be with her permantly but one thing much change that you want to get a job to support her and the kid and tell her how much you appreciate her constantly it dont matter what she says to you just tell her and just remember she is always right. Good Luck
2006-11-12 11:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋