when did you...?

Question

have your first kiss
have your first boyfriend( like real, going places with them not an 'in school' boyfriend
and did your parents want to meet them when you go out with them, my parents are like i want to meet them and maybe their parent what should i do?!??!?!?!?!?!??!?! is this weird, guys would you be weirded out
should i sneak behind my parents?
will it clear up later?
im only 13 and havent had a boyfird or kiss yet, is that wierd?

Answer 1

u r young! 13! no its not weird that u havent had ur first kiss yet!
theres no average because everyone is different but i'd say 15 is the average, first boyfriend at 16 and its not weird for ur parents to want to meet him, they need to know who u r spending all ur time with. if the guy isnt ok with that, he's not a gentlemen

Answer 2

I was 16 when I had my first kiss but I didnt have a boyfriend outside of school until I graduated high school two years later. Of course my parents didnt like him and vice versa so we didnt last more than 8 months My dad was usually right about the guys that I dated. Dont worry You are only 13 years old and I think that you should wait until you get older to have a BF and its not weird that you havent kissed or been kissed yet Things will happen when you least expect it and you should follow your heart by not following what others are doing I know its hard dealing with peer pressure but you will be ok Good luck in all that you do.

Answer 3

have your first kiss: 13

have your first boyfriend( like real, going places with them not an 'in school' boyfriend: 14

and did your parents want to meet them when you go out with them, : YES

! is this weird,:NO

guys would you be weirded out
should i sneak behind my parents? ABSOUTELY NOT
will it clear up later? IT WILL IN TIME
im only 13 and havent had a boyfird or kiss yet, is that wierd? NO!!
YOU ARE AT THE PERFECT AGE TO BE EASILY INFLUENCED, DONT LET YOUR FRIENDS PUSH YOU IN TO SOMETHING YOU ARE NOT COMPLETELY READY FOR.

Answer 4

My first kiss was at the Junior Prom, I was 16. He was my first real boyfriend and yes my parents wanted to meet him before I went to the prom with him. They knew his parents because I came from a very small town and everyone just seemed to know one another. If you go out with a decent guy, they don't object to meeting your parents. My girls always had their guys come to the house to meet us or they didn't go out, and PLEASE don't sneak, if your parents know they can trust you then you will be better off and it is important to have that good bond with your parents and be able to talk with them. If you were my daughter and you were 13 you wouldn't be allowed to date at all. Remember your parents are your best friends, even if you are too young to realize it. You will appreciate them in future years.

Answer 5

The first kiss that I had I was about six years old. I was walking down the street in the neighborhood and these two girls tackled me in the yard and held me down and "kissed me". I mean the wrestled me to the ground, and I got up spitting. You will not believe what Rita told me to do. She said you need to open your mouth more when I kiss you. She was seven..Wow!
Later in school Rita did all my homework, gave me answers too test until the sixth grade. When I got to Jr. High I was a total "dumb ass" as I knew nothing, and we were then in separate classes. Yes she is still around, but also a millionarisis

Answer 6

I had my first kiss during my freshman year of high school ... but since he was a senior my parents said we couldn't date. My first "boyfriend" was during my sophomore year ... we dated almost an entire year, but since neither of us had our licenses, it was pretty much a "school only" thing. My first "real" boyfriend was my junior year ... we did things with other couples ... went to movies and such.

Yes, my parents wanted to meet each and every one and, while it annoyed the hell out of me, it was perfectly normal. I wouldn't sneak around if I were you ... I tried it ... and when it finally comes out, not only will you be in trouble, but they won't EVER approve of him.

Thirteen is still young ... you've got years ahead of you ... and you'll get your first kiss in no time. Probably when you least expect it ...

Answer 7

I had my first kiss around 17 or 18, after my senior year in HS. My parents already knew him, (his parents and my parents were friends before he and I was born.). I wouldn't sneak around, it might clear up later, but why get in trouble if there's no need.

Answer 8

Well, I havn't had a kiss yet...(although I would love one from my girlfriend... ) And Me and my Girlfriend havn't gone on a "date yet" so I would think Your pretty normal. And of course your parents want to meet your boyfriend. If you sneak, you'll get in more trouble. Good luck!~

Answer 9

i know what you feel coz that whats my parents wanted me to do,but the fact is i don't do kissing even if i had a boyfriend but the fact is that i don't wanna do it.i don't know i just dont feel comportable if my boyfriend is trying to do it with me.Your young enjoy life but this is the only thing you gonna keep in mind don't do something you'll regret for the rest of your life.its ok if your parents wanted to know who's the lucky guy your dating or having a relastionships with because they want to know if the guy is worth all the risk.good luck

Answer 10

Being blonde doesn't mean you have to start at 13. Give it some time girl.
Your parents are concerned that he may just be after one thing, which would possibly make them grandparents. They're just being cautious.