Lesbian or not?

Question

My bf keeps accusing me of being a lesbian. Just because I like chicks with big boobs and blonde hair doesn't mean anything. I don't want to be with a woman....at least I don't think so. I know if he keeps getting on my case I'm kicking him to the curb and possibly seeing if the grass is greener on the other side.

Answer 1

I was in the same situation... I had never looked at chicks in that way and would be straight up "no" if someone asked if I would "go there", but I was not afraid to say it if I thought a women had good looks!!!... my ex would always say I was a lesbian too... anyway we ended up splitting and funny enough.... I did experiment with a woman and now I will not go back to a man!!!...
You are the only person who can answer the question of whether or not you are a lesbian... If you are thinking of crossing to the other side to see if the grass is greener, do it because you won't know unless you try it - break it off with him first though... and if you don't like it, it will still be an experience you will never forget !
Good luck

Answer 2

I was with you till your last few words. If you think big breasts are attractive on women it doesnt mean you are lesbian. If you want to play with them and it turns you on sexually more than being with a man, means you might be. You are right that he shouldnt harrass you but if you are a lesbian he has the right to know so he can pursue someone who is not. The fact that you say you want to see if the grass is greener on the other side means he might see something that you are just not ready to admit.

Answer 3

Maybe he just wishes you were for his own sake...
Maybe you admire this type of woman cuz you are the opposite???(just guessing by your avatar)
I always wished I was blonde and blue eyed when I was growing up but that does'nt mean a thing now.
Don't listen to you bf
Actually he sounds like a loser
Kick him to the curb and find a real man

Answer 4

If you're considering leaving him for a woman than why are you upset for accusing you of being a lesbian?

And he's probably just poking fun at you. I'm sure he's not serious. Try to relax a bit and tease him back. If he doesn't like it then explain to him it's the same way you feel when he teases you.

Answer 5

Just because you thing women with big breasts and blonde hair are attractive doesn't make you a lesbian. You still date men, you still enjoy the company of a man... It might make you bi-sexual, but there's nothing wrong with it. I think if he keeps it up you should kick him in the shins...

Answer 6

I have no idea if you're serious. If you are, then you need to give more information. Admiring other women does not make you a lesbian. If you are not, it's awfully callous to superficially approach a subject that lots of good people have killed themselves struggling with.

Answer 7

Sounds to me like he just wants you to be lesbian. Don't worry about it. If you find other women attractive, it isn't a big deal.

Answer 8

nothing wrong with that i think you may want to try a girl but it is ok and he may want you to so he can get in on the action later go for it it is only kinky the first time you do it

Answer 9

You don't have to be gay to admire the female form. Let's face it...women are beautiful creatures. You can appreciate them without wanting to get physical with them. He should respect you enough to stop saying these things when you ask him to.

Answer 10

maybe thats what he wants you to do and later he join in! its ok to look at other women and it doesnt mean anything. but the experiance is great with a chick!