there's this guy at my school who likes me, a LOT, and i really don't like him! but all the time he's telling me how much he loves me and how beautiful i am and whatnot, and he calls me pretty much every day. it's getting annoying and i appreciate the compliments but to an extent he needs to calm down and leave me alone. what should i do without pissing him off?
2006-11-12 11:02:10 · 21 answers · asked by itsjennbabyy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him straight out and pretty clear, "please don't call me or compliment me anymore, it makes me feel uncomfortable and I don't like it". Make sure you are not leading him on, and if you don't like him why would you care if hi is pissed? Otherwise tell and adult who can talk to him if it doesn't stop, a school counselor or something. Take Care!
2006-11-12 11:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by noelis12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not responsible for how he chooses to feel. Be honest with him...tell him you appreciate the compliments and it's sweet, but you just don't feel the same way and would rather he didn't call you every day, and tone it down a bit.
If he chooses to get angry, that's his problem...you said nothing ugly (hopefully) and have every right to tell him to stop or at least lessen, behavior toward you that you do not like.
Don't put up with it if you don't like it...and don't not say anything because he "might get pissed"....why is how he might feel more important than how you feel now? Hmmm?
2006-11-12 11:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to deal with the same thing when I was in 8th grade. The guy who was bothering me though took it a little further than the guy your talking about did. He eventually started touching me in inappropriate places (like, he would walk behind me and "accidentally" touch my butt and would come up and talk to me and "accidentally" brush his hand or arm across my chest). I decided I had enough and I talked to my mom about it. It was hard telling her, but she told me to go to the school councilor. I did. She made me confront him... it really didn't help me because then he started threatening me. He told me the next day in class that he was going to jump me after school if I ever did that again...
I realized, telling school people really doesn't seem to help... what I did, I started trying to cling on to ANYONE else in the class just so he would not bother me. Now, I was a shy girl so it was hard, but I would have rather talked to someone and be nervous than be scared by him. Whenever the teacher would take us out to baseball field to chill out for the rest of the day, I actually kept by my teachers side. My teacher probably thought I was weird, but I just did NOT want to be around that kid. Eventually, the school year ended and I have never seen that guy since.
2006-11-12 11:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you could be dealing with a stalker.Let him know that you appreciate the compliments BUT are just not interested. If he still continues to act crazy...there is nothing to do but be blunt and tell him off.
2006-11-12 11:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by jennav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really just talk to him and tell him that you like the compliments but to make them special don't say them all the time. Good luck. ROCK ON!!
2006-11-12 11:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him tell him you appreciate the fact that he likes you and acknowledges you and all but you think that he is going overboard with his calling and compliments. if he is a sensible guy he will understand and not take it personal.
2006-11-12 11:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Obria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this, "I appreciate the comments, but I don't see you like that, I hope you can understand?"
Another thing, are you using bait or is he just a total wack job?
2006-11-12 11:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about pissing him off...
Just tell him to leave you alone and if
he does not, tell the Principal ....
2006-11-12 11:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be firm and tell him that you are in no way interested in this man, and that he needs to back off. If he doesn't, report his @ss because he's harrassing you.
2006-11-12 11:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gawd... that sounds awfull... I wouldn't want that guy calling me every day either. I don't care if he loves me or not... I'm not going out with him... and I don't want him hanging around with my wife either.
2006-11-12 11:06:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋