This may sound full of it, but in reality I get asked out at least once a week, and I don't go clubbing. I get asked out when I eat at restaurants, or walk on campus etc.
Thing is, I HAVE NO BODY! I basically have the smallest breasts I've ever seen, and I don't wear padded bras because I don't want to create an illusion of something that does not exist. I am 5'5", 105 pounds, and have a BMI of around 17.5, which qualifies as "anorexic." I have been called "very pretty" and "very beautiful" and have been asked to model, but seriously I have no body...what's up with this? Guys tell me the body is important in qualifying a girl as hot, and I'm basically a stick. So why do guys find me attractive? I even dislike my own body....
2006-11-12 11:05:45 · 17 answers · asked by Kristin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I looked more voluptuous, so to speak...I don't get why guys find me attractive ..doesn't the body constitute 50% of "hotness"?
2006-11-12 11:06:58 · update #1
Is it just my face or what?
2006-11-12 11:07:32 · update #2
uh..okay..thanks poster 3. but a lot of the guys that ask me out are my age..around 20...so they're pedophiles at age 20?
2006-11-12 11:09:50 · update #3
Poster 15: Mainly strangers....
2006-11-12 11:22:34 · update #4
A face is the first thing a guy notices if it is pretty enough. If not so pretty, he sees the body first.
2006-11-12 11:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you complaining? If guys still like you and you don't think you have a body it's a GOOD thing! It means that boys don't only want you for sex!
But then again, it could be that many men find your body gorgeous. Remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
And obviously you have something going for you if you were asked to model, so I'd stop complaining and enjoy it. Quit worrying and be happy. Try and find a guy that asks you out that you like and go with it.
2006-11-12 11:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all I think you need to love yourself and the body that God gave you. Secondly, the fact that you are being asked out often means that there is somethingabout you that is attractive to the guys, your personality, for instance. Remember too, that guys have different taste not every guy wants a girl with big breast and so on, some like taller, slimmer girls. They may not even be interested in your body, but they may be interested in who you be.
2006-11-12 11:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kebony 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Number 2 and 3 easy. They have very smooth bodies, as well as the hourglass curves someone mentioned earlier. Worst are 1 and 7.
2016-03-28 03:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are perfect strangers asking you out? Then it's probably because they consider you pretty. Ususally if a girl is pretty then guys don't care what bra size they are. If a guy wants a girl with big boobs then he'll only ask out girls with big boobs. If you know the guys who are asking you out then maybe they like your personality. be thankful that you're being asked out and quit worrying about your measurements, guys don't ask if they don't want to.
2006-11-12 11:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TV makes everyone believe you have to be small to be attractive. Be happy your not as big as some people are. You have low self esteem and you need to go see a counselor. No joke. Good Luck.
2006-11-12 11:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by My two cents 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Probably because you have a beautiful personality, sweety. You know there are guyz out there who look at other things other than the body. Don't sell yourself short.
2006-11-12 11:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It might not be all about the body. Some guys really like eyes, or smile or if they really know you, your personallity. Honestly, sometimes its not about the body, its about everything together. Don't know if I helped but good luck. ROCK ON!!
2006-11-12 11:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by celloman2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a closet pedophiles dream girl...seriously.
I know men like the ones you are describing and they have told me this.
They like the look of a prepubescent teen girl...and guess what...thats you from what you said.
Anyways who cares how big your boobs are, at least yours wont sag.
2006-11-12 11:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
u know u like the attention so quit buggin...i mean just cause u have "no body" as u supposedly stated (whether it is true or not is of no concern to me), u might have a pretty face or somethin..or brains..
2006-11-12 11:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by TrackStar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋