okay, its not that i dont like the guy, thats not at all the problem. i just hate being tied down to once guy. its only been one week and i wanna break up with him, but i dont wanna lose him.
how can i get over this. or do i just ignore it?
2006-11-12 10:59:23 · 7 answers · asked by d_asnightnday 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you are ready for a serious relationship.
Dont see things as "oh great, i cant do anything because i have a boyfriend" Talk to him, tell him you still want to have fun with your girls, and if you do then you shouldnt have a problem with him going out with his friends.(and by fun, i dont mean go on a whore-a-thon...be good to each other or else you'll never learn how to carry a good relationship) Give him a chance ("..i wanne break up with him, but i dont wanna lose him" obviously you do like him)..but if you still feel that way, I think that you should tell him so you wont waste his time, and lead him on.
2006-11-12 11:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that you have to be in a monogamous relationship at this time? Go have fun. Leave your options open. Get a relationship later when you really want one.
2006-11-12 19:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you aren't ready for a relationship yet........
Talk to him and see what happens.
Remember.....
Men don't understand hints... AT ALL ! ! !
If you open your heart and just have a talk with him you might be surprised of the outcome!
If you loose him all I can say is that he is looking for more than a friendship and he will keep looking.....
Hope it helps you
2006-11-12 19:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tommy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a week and you want to break up with him? Then my answer is to break up with him now before he gets too attached and gets his heart broke.
2006-11-12 19:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like to settle down with a guy don't make him think that you want to stay with him!!! Be straight up with him....seems like you have some issues to deal with!!!
"its only been one week and i wanna break up with him, but i dont wanna lose him" ---- wtf is that all about!!!???
2006-11-12 19:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by LadyDeath$trike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just hate being tied down to once guy.
way to go player
2006-11-12 19:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Fowl Language 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him how you feel and see if he is ok with having an "open relationship"...
2006-11-12 19:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by pretty_nice_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋