There is this dude that has been friendly with me for a while (he does in home care for someone in my apartment) he always says hi and makes conversation. Recently he asked for my number and suggested we go out sometime. I thought it was a good idea, but now he just wants to come to my place and this is weird cause I dont even know him. And he sends me text messages with things like "hey baby", "hey sexy". I think maybe I am paranoid but i think this guy just wants to bang me. I think that he found out I was a single mom so he may think I am easy. He has not suggested going out once, just coming to my place. Am I crazy? Just to make it clear, he has not been to my place yet and I dont want to bang him.
2006-11-12 10:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by anonbealove 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it does sound more like he's hoping for sex, than really desiring to date. Let him know you don't generally invite people over until you've dated a bit and gotten to know them...then see what his next move/request is...
2006-11-12 11:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. I think you're jumping to conclusions a little fast. Give the guy a chance, calm down. and if he really does just want to have sex with you then hes a jerk and you dont ever have to go out with him again, but dont judge him so fast. If it makes you uncomfortable that he text's things like that to you then tell him and Im sure he'll stop.
2006-11-12 19:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to bang you!. I've known guys like that. Trash
2006-11-12 19:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be hard to get make him wait . Dont ever let him in your house, and make sure he knows you dont put out til married then see how long he hangs out...
2006-11-12 19:43:02 · answer #4 · answered by ha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are horney losers he proably does want to have sex with you but hes being a hrney guys and you need to set the laws down thats all that is ever on guys' minds
2006-11-12 19:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him, and it that time iam sure you can let him know you not easy, and if you feel he does not get it, do not have over to you house
2006-11-12 19:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u never kno... see how long it plays out... the longer he stays the more he'll be into u and if he leaves cuz he cant hit then u'll kno...
2006-11-12 19:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by bigguu254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to have sex....don't fall for it
2006-11-12 19:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you assessment of him is correct
2006-11-12 19:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, thats all he wants is sex, then he will leave ya,
2006-11-12 19:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋