Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

i like to have more frnds. but i want to know the best definition for friendship.

2006-11-11 01:47:25 · 11 answers · asked by chakkara 1 in Friends

my friend is not fat but quite curvy. she likes this man who is 19 and goes to dancing college. she says that everytime she sees him he is with skinny athletic girls who dance also. ive told her to judt ask him out but fears that men who dance only go out with fellow dancers. ive told her that oppisites atract and that he'll probarbly be intrseted in her but she says she wont unlsess she has had an oppinion form someone who dances

2006-11-11 01:44:46 · 9 answers · asked by dianetoner06 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok,

I am 13 years old. I have given my address to this boy I am not suppose to speak too. I met him on the internet.I have being talking to him for 5 months. My parents think I'm not talking to him anymore, but I am. I am totally in love ... Anyway, he is going to write to me. I know he isn't a peodophile and have a lot of things to prove it. So take it mind he isn't while answering. If my parents do find out. What should I do , say ? Please help.

2006-11-11 01:44:30 · 20 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a single mom. And right now, I am ready again to be in a relationship. But it seems that I am attracting the wrong guys. They're wrong for me because they are married. And I don't want anything to do with married men. Why am I attracting the wrong guys?

2006-11-11 01:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by Miss A 1 in Singles & Dating

Here's the thing I'm 26 years old as is my husband. I have been at my new job for about 4 months now. I'm a security dispatcher for a big company 80% of the people i work with are men. I love my job it's fairly easy excellent benifits and good pay. Here lately i've had a secret admirer who leaves me notes and flowers i have know idea who it is but i'm very faithful to my husband i've been cheated on and i know how that feels, i love my husband very much and we've been together for 5 years,ok the thing is he wants me to quit my job. I told him no that it wasn't my fault that the things at work were happening i have a child from previous relationship he is 7 and i have to support him to. He's a good husband and step-father don't get me wrong but he is really pissed about this and i'm afraid of what will be next. Do you think i was in the wrong????Thanks

2006-11-11 01:44:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just discovered print-outs of dirty IM convosations talking about having sex and meeting up. My Dad goes away alot and I think he has been meeting up with people.

2006-11-11 01:42:46 · 41 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family

what do peoples like whitegirls or black girls or brown what do peoples like the best.

2006-11-11 01:41:39 · 2 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been single for so long now its getting beyond a joke. Dont get me wrong i dont feel i need a man to complete me but i also do dream of falling in love with someone. Im a pretty girl (a get quite alot of male attention) but none of men seem to stick about and im really starting to doubt my self. I also think i heve a caring kind fun personality and my career is going well. My close frienf has recently met a guy im not jealous as i am really happy for her but last night she promised to go for a drink after we had made plans for ages and them dumped me at the last minute to stay in with this guy..i called her today and she has just ignored my calls...im 25 some of my friends are engaged and i get a strong feeling im going to be on the shelf for a long time does any body know how one can change this situation without resulting to dating agencies? Do you think its a iitle rude of my fried to cancel she also keeps on going on (really really putting it in my face) ?

2006-11-11 01:39:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

some of the couple are loves together doesnt care about the race or nations,can this be allowed or not..and some of the people doesnt care about their loves than the couple that have same race or nations...is this really wrong..?

2006-11-11 01:37:21 · 25 answers · asked by Prince 1 in Singles & Dating

His names Tim.
He's really nice, and funny, and we are really good friends.
His girlfriend broke up with him, like last week.
He is really tall and cute,
but I don't know if he likes me back, and I'm too nervous
to ask him myself!
What should I do to hint that I'm crushing on him...?

Please, no inappropriate answers, I'm only 13, thanks.

2006-11-11 01:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been going out w/ my boyfriend for almost 4yrs now & it seems bit by bit our relationship is getting worse. We can be all good one min but then be fighting the next.
I luv & care for him but for a while now I keeping asking myself "why are we still together?" We have a few things in common but alot of things not in common. Is that we love eachother all that matters or should it be more?

2006-11-11 01:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by saint251083 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my ex bf asked me out again, telling me he felt the same way for me like i did, and he loves me and missed me everysecond. and then next day he asked me to do his paper. so i did his paper for him, coz i had nutting better to do. but then today he is just so busy i got home caled him he is like im going to eat i will call you back but he didnt call me back, then in the afternoon i called him so many times he didnt pick up then fiinally he picked up and tell me oh i was with my parents sry i couldnt pick up then he was going to work so he talked to me for like 10 mins then he is like ok i have to go to work so i will call you in my break or when i get out, but he didnt call in break or when he got out, then i called him at 11 at night and he is like well i just got out of work and im goin to eat then going to cousins house to sleep so i will call you back but he ddint, i dont kno what to do, is he playing around? what should i do? help me out please, because i dont want to get hurt.

2006-11-11 01:36:54 · 8 answers · asked by sexiincute108 1 in Singles & Dating

People say that masturbating feels good, but i just don't get, why can't i get the pleasure. My friend said i just have to pluck my finger (haha) but sadly i don't feel anything.
I'm 16 and I think I'm too young for sex and scared i will regret it, but my intentions for sex are high...don't know why, maybe because i'm lonely.
Sooo... i think masturbating is useless for me and sometimes i got this feeling that i don't like to masturbate or touching myself. I can't imagine why girls are moaning or say that it's a great feeling while having sex. How does it feel like? (for ppl who have had experience it)
Sometimes when i'm studying i can hardly concentrate, coz i'm thinking bout it all the time (really disturbing & irritating but can't get away from it)
Pheww...need to pure my mind!

2006-11-11 01:35:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 01:34:35 · 11 answers · asked by debra_d13 1 in Singles & Dating

I had mine at about 21. I never, have and still don’t want children. I certainly didn’t ever want any surprises.

Almost from the word, “Hello”, I would state that I don’t want children, and I had a vasectomy. Many women would have nothing to do with me as a result.

Would you just keep quiet about it? I always used condoms anyway, so would it matter?

I know that sounds kind of cruel, but we live in a hostile world. Most of my friends are deep in debt to child support. Women whom lie about talking the pill where very common when I was younger. Most of my male friends tell me, “If I could go back in time, I would have used condoms, or had a vasectomy, or both”.

They called me stupid back then. Today, they phrase me on my foresight. I am 40.

2006-11-11 01:33:03 · 9 answers · asked by Marvin 7 in Singles & Dating

ill be geting married very soon, and my sonnn to be sister -in-law treats me like shi---,, and i really dont know why , she never even took the time to meet me yet, she will call and take about me like im a dog ,, says im ugly and fat and old ,, says most anything to hurt us, and that her brother will be making a big mistake if he married me, that he can do a lot better, and this really hurts us , ive never said or done 1 thing to her , all i ever tried to do is be her friend , im good to my soon to be husbsnd and his little girl, my sister -in law doesnt come over at all, just calles to up set every one and then hangs up.says im a fu --ing joke , and that im not much of a step up from what her brother had before, wow,, what a peace of work,all we both want is to be happy ,, and she cant believe that her brother is going to marry me, i wish i knew how to put my picture on her , but i dont, does any one know what i can do about this problem,

2006-11-11 01:32:39 · 22 answers · asked by lady 2 in Family

I love her very much and only get to make love with her on Saturday nights. I don't mind it rough at times but she wants me to swear at her and throw her around all the time.
I would prefer that we were a bit gentler with each other.
How can I suggest this without upsetting her?

2006-11-11 01:32:36 · 22 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

i hve known my g/f for about two years now.i met her in mcdonalds,the way she was drinking her milk shake was too much for me ,so i went over to her and asked her name. so we got on from there.anyway, the first few months were fine i was nice to her and she enjoyed being around me.but i have noticed she is telling me that im being nasty towards her recently and it has made me think. i call her things like lil piggy, my pooey bear, etc which she didn't mind at first but now gets very upset.i don't swear or phisicaly harm her but now im wondering if my name calling at her is getting out of control. am i being to nasty towards her or is she useing my name calling as an excuse to leave me like she said she will do?

2006-11-11 01:31:43 · 41 answers · asked by mr_truth 1 in Singles & Dating

I am friends with my ex-boyfriend who also happens to be my friends ex-boyfriend. We hang out together and get along, but just as friends. The problem is that my friend hates our ex and will not be around him. There is a lot more drama behind the story but it should not affect the outcome. Should i not mix my friendships or help them work it out?

2006-11-11 01:30:10 · 6 answers · asked by Double D 1 in Friends

sounds like a fein but im bored

2006-11-11 01:29:11 · 7 answers · asked by drew t 1 in Singles & Dating

Her name is Mary Fluck. Her husband is Dieter Fluck and they have a son, Marcel. Both of them are from Austria. We used to be neighbours when she' s in Malaysia. i'm desprately looking for her. Can anybody help me?

2006-11-11 01:29:10 · 3 answers · asked by freegowalker 1 in Friends

thats right, u heard me right. the sad thing is, noone else will ever believe it is possible for these 2 so-called "up-standing" individuals to be doing this. to top it off, sister's husband is a preacher!! im so numb, but deep down i always knew it, just didnt wanna believe it was possible. where to go from here?

2006-11-11 01:28:57 · 27 answers · asked by lanna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 01:28:11 · 10 answers · asked by Steph :-) 3 in Friends

2006-11-11 01:27:46 · 14 answers · asked by PAPUN 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night whilst having a drink with me buddy he told me he has'nt had sex with the wife for 3 months,he's 53 and reckons he could be going through the male menopause "i've just lost the urge" he told me, well i'm quite a bit younger than him and still very rampant. He gets a bit worried she may go elsewhere for it "she's only 35 and still needs it" he said, well the 3 of us are going out for a drink tonight and when he goes to the toilet i'm gonna whisper to her what i know and tell her i'm ready to service her if he cant manage it anymore................. well what i need to know is surely he'ed rather it was me giving her one than some stranger he dont even know who could also have an S T D. wouldnt he???????????

2006-11-11 01:25:59 · 13 answers · asked by qcumber man 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 01:25:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is eight years younger than me, we have only been seeing each other 8 weeks. He is unemployed, has been on benefits for 2 years and tells me he is a song writer, singer. I am employed, run my own business part time, have a mortgage and financial commitments.
Things were find in the first week, but since then my boyfriend constantly finds fault with me and has finished with me 7 times in the 8 weeks. (Always by text) Things came to head when he again finished with me and became verbally abusive and attacked how I run my business and now our age diffence especially hurtful was his comment that I should be grateful he even bothered to speak to me (all by text.) I have decided to walk away by texting back that I forgave him for the hurtful things he has said, as deep down I am sure he is a nice guy, but I obviously make him unhappy. His reply was that it as a shame that i was not a nice person and thanked me for wasting his time. I am sure he will be back!

2006-11-11 01:24:05 · 18 answers · asked by jenifer241731 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 01:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by POPPIE 1 in Singles & Dating

someone famous someone you know ANYBODY!!!!

2006-11-11 01:21:30 · 24 answers · asked by Kaila victoria 1 in Singles & Dating

I’d like you help with this one - I am 45 and divorced and not had a relationship for 2 years. Three weeks ago in London I met a really gorgeous girl (I will call her Jo for this purpose) and we really hit it off well, she’s about 34, never married and works in the City as a “Future Banker Manager” what ever that is, she is every guys dream (believe me guys) but I have a few issues I can’t work out so I will be frank and list them!

1. Why does she act as if we have been friends forever?
2. Why is such a slim, sexy adventurous and beautiful pretty girl not taken?
3. Excuse this one but – why did she sleep with me the first night we met and every time since with enthusiasm and is so easy with it?
4. Should I try not to fall for her just in case it doesn’t work out?
5. I’d really like to make a go of it with her whatever she’s been like before!

I guess I am thinking that it could end as quickly as it started and that she may be just using me and she could get bored in a few Months.

2006-11-11 01:21:06 · 14 answers · asked by keith_welwyn 1 in Singles & Dating