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I'm a single mom. And right now, I am ready again to be in a relationship. But it seems that I am attracting the wrong guys. They're wrong for me because they are married. And I don't want anything to do with married men. Why am I attracting the wrong guys?

2006-11-11 01:44:30 · 17 answers · asked by Miss A 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

17 answers

You are a prime target for men who want a sexual adventure., probably because you are attractive AND because you are divorced.

They probably think you are vulnerable...easy.

It is unfortunate, but true.

Keep your ethics high...look for a relationship someplace other
than in a bar or boite. There are many places that are not so sexually polarized, such as courses, company picnics, churches, etc., that you might find a decent boyfriend.

Dont sleep with a guy until you are sure that he is worth sharing a precious part of your life.

There ARE men out there that would love to find a fine woman, and having a child is only an impediment to the wrong type of man.

2006-11-11 02:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by hls 6 · 2 0

Sometimes it happens we tend to be attracting the wrong guys and the wrong guys are attracted to you simply because you are someone different to them, they might like you because you are funny, intelligent and very interesting to talk to and that is what most of them look for some of them are looking for sex in this so don't be surprised, but if you are concerned about the wrong guys attracting to you then maybe you should take more time and wait and see if someone else will come along....The majority of the men that do attract to you is married men who in fact is having a hard time in there marriages with the woman they are with....and they could be just looking for someone to talk to and have some fun with on a intellectual basis so don't be surprised by it and take your time and wait and see what happens there is plenty of time and you have nothing to lose at this point...

2006-11-11 01:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by beagirl40 4 · 0 0

I attract those also and we are in the same boat. I to am a single mother. Men aren't married but they are in relationships or just jerks. I wonder do I give off a feel that I like those kinds of men because i don't. I to wonder why I attract the men that I attrack! Ugh!

2006-11-11 01:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 0 1

Please dont be offended because I do not mean this that way...but from experience... married men are attracted through flirtion and can also sense vulnerability. If you give off a sense of need and vulnerability, we as men will do wrong... Hope I did not offend, just being honest. I hope things really work out for you.

2006-11-11 01:51:52 · answer #4 · answered by Turc 1 · 1 0

maybe its because your giving off the wrong message to guys, a lot of married men like to flirt with married women, its just the way things go. Just put it behind you and start over, this will hopefully give you more confidence, say hello and tell him about your self, things should go smoothly from here.

Good luck!

2006-11-11 01:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

After reading some of the other answers I've come to the conclusion that it is not so much that you or the other ladies attract the wrong guys as it is that there are so many of the wrong ones out there. Don't settle for polluted water. There is a bottle of Evian or Pelligrini out there for you.

2006-11-11 01:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1 1

are you attracting them or attracted to them? and hopefully you don't pursue these creeps. you just have to be patient, sorry but it's true. trust me there are plenty of open minded men out there that are willing to take on the "challenge" of beeing with a woman that has a child. honestly try different places where you might find someone with similar interests such as a bookstore or whatever you're into. that way you can be fairly sure you share at least one common interest and it should be easier to start a conversation. good luck!

2006-11-11 01:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by adman 3 · 0 1

I have the same problem and I keep attracting single but players kind of guys. They're always handsome and they just can't keep to one woman but they don't want to find me dating someone else. I don't really have an answer-just watch your heart. They always say they will come to you when you are not looking!

2006-11-11 01:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

too unaproachable for the timid single guys I guess.

tone it down a bit and see what happens. a guy is more likely to approach a woman in sweats with her hair in a poneytail and minimal makeup than a woman dressed to the 9's with her CFM shoes on a mini skirt that shows off those great legs.

im me and we can talk sometime

2006-11-11 01:51:18 · answer #9 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1 0

You're probably sending them the wrong message. Only married guys are interested? That's weird.

2006-11-11 01:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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