2006-11-11 01:25:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you think this is a FRIENDLY squabble.. then feel free to voice an opinion.
However as you implies this is a major fight.. and as it seems you are unconfortable say this.
Listen... you are both my friends. I'd like to keep it that way. Oviously this issue is causing tension. Please be my friend and leave me out of this. I do not feel comfortable in picking sides.
2006-11-11 01:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Vanchaser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it...this is a dangerous place to get in the middle. If you do, you could end up losing both friends. I would tell them that you love them both and can't take sides because they both mean so much to you. If I gave any opinion at all it would be for them to talk it out with each other instead of with you. Listen to them if you can but be careful what you say...it could come back to bite you.
2006-11-11 09:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't take sides, it's those two that are married, right? if you choose a side:
#1: YOU are way out of line and being disrespectful..
#2: HOW involved in others lives are you? What happened to your life?
Remain neutral, and keep you nose out. If they wanted you in that bad, we should continue the battle for civil unions...but among three people.
2006-11-11 09:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by fastfakts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You state your opinion to them both at the same time, and then you leave it at that. There is no use in taking sides, it only complicates things further and it is childish.
2006-11-11 09:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. its for the best. Just tell them that u are not going to have a part to play in this and they need to work it out for themselves. That u don't want to be in the middle of their realtionship and u will walk away when they put u in the middle of it .
2006-11-11 09:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by crystal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best advice i can give you,dont ever get involved in a row between partners,unless of course there is abuse going on,they wont thank you and you will end up losing one or both of them as friends!explain to them that you value both their friendships and you are not going to risk that friendship by taking sides.if they are true friends they will appreciate that.
2006-11-11 09:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by silvergran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow Switzerlands example, and maintain neutrality. Peace
2006-11-11 09:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by rasputin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take sides. Stay out of it. Let them work out their problems; it's not your business. You'll only cause more conflict and lose your friends if you take sides.
2006-11-11 09:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by peachy78 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walk away, sorry can't help you. never get involved in a marriage. I can't believe they would want other people involved I hated that.
2006-11-11 09:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I usually mind my own bssiness , getting involved only creates problems for you wnen they make up,
2006-11-11 09:32:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋