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I am 13 years old. I have given my address to this boy I am not suppose to speak too. I met him on the internet.I have being talking to him for 5 months. My parents think I'm not talking to him anymore, but I am. I am totally in love ... Anyway, he is going to write to me. I know he isn't a peodophile and have a lot of things to prove it. So take it mind he isn't while answering. If my parents do find out. What should I do , say ? Please help.
2006-11-11 01:44:30 · 20 answers · asked by La parisienne ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur pairents will find out anyway
ur gonna get in so much **** :) HA HA HA HA HA
2006-11-11 01:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all! to the people who answered this question and told this young lady to meet him , lie to her parents, or as someone said "just give him some" You should be ashamed of yourselves. Some questions are just for fun yes, but this is a person's life you are playing with here. and how would u feel if tomorrow she was found dead? What would you tell her parents if were asked why you gave her advice on meeting this man?
Some questions need to be taken more seriously!
Secondly,You are playing with fire girl! There are crazy people out there. I know you probably don't think "this one" falls into that category. But any man on the Internet who flirts with a 13 year old girl AND asks for her address.. should go to jail!
You said you know he's not a pedophile.. how do u know that? You don't know anything about this person! Emailing, and sending pictures back and forth doesn't qualify!
Your parents love you, and are only telling you this for your benefit!
He could kidnap you, rape you, kill you. You don't know this person. He could appear nice, but more than likely he is not!
Do not go anywhere with him .. ANYWHERE.
You should really listen to your parents!
You also say you are really in love.. well if he loved you he wouldn't want to sneak around with you. He would meet your parents so that you can get to know him together.
Be smart about this..everything isn't always what it appears
I will keep you in my prayers
Be safe
2006-11-11 09:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 13 you will have many loves to come and go.. If your parents don't want you to talk with this boy they probably have a good reason even if you don't think so.. They are just looking out for your safety.. AND for the record you think that this guy isn't older than you think BUT many out there know how to change identities and make you believe what they want.. Don't let the worst happen to you.. Watch your back because if you don't who will. as obviously you are not into listening to those who care.
Be smart and be safe..
2006-11-11 09:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by fishin_girl72 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, boy. Okay, this may sound a little harsh, but you not only have NO idea who this guys is, NO idea how old he is, and NO idea what he looks like, how are you able to LOVE him (and love is a very strong word) and trust him? This guy could be a 40-year-old balding pedophile, and you have just given him your address where he can come and stalk a 13-year-old girl!
I have no idea what to say, just good luck on your own terms.
2006-11-11 09:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never give your address out to pervs over the internet young lady. Just because you think that he is not pedophile doesn't mean that he isn't one. He could be some sicko trying to lure you away and kill you. I say immediately tell your parents what you have done for your own protection. This is no joke. Be safe and God bless.
2006-11-11 09:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have not met this person in person, then you know squat for sure..... If you are lying to your parents then that is your first mistake, your second is you are lying to yourself and that is a biggie...... Stop this before it starts, you can't possibly be totally in love with printed letters. You need to meet people , get to know them, not hide behind a screen and create something in your mind.... I can't believe that you would prevent yourself from having a relationship with someone you could see, touch, hold hands with, you know the normal stuff..You are living in a fantasy girl, give your head a shake,.......
2006-11-11 09:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
R u sure u r in love? Personality can be altered on the net. Never b in love with anyone through the net. Trust mi. I know. Been there n done that. Bt if u r really sure he's the one, den introduce him to ur parents as a friend, nt someone in cyberspace. If he's decent enough, they'll permit. Bt do think carefully. Is he the one?
2006-11-11 09:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jerzee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well ur parents will find out they find out everything an there is no point in hiding ur love for someone cause its a special thing thats given to us. but you carnt help who you fall in love with you just have to take it steady an be patiant an it should all work out rite in the end ok.
2006-11-11 09:53:26 · answer #8 · answered by lance o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your parents find out you will be totally grounded. They may even take you puter away. Mom and dad must have a reason they don't want you to talk to him. What and Why?
2006-11-11 09:51:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mjt 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my answer won't be a mature one but I would say lie lie and lie some more. And if they find out? Let them talk to him and find out what he's like. If they still don't accept him and you know for sure he a nice boy and you like him resume to lying once again.
2006-11-11 09:52:38 · answer #10 · answered by selene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you can do the responsible thing and tell your parents
you shouldent be talking to strangers in the first place. well you could tell him you accidently gave him the wrong address and just make up a address. good luck
2006-11-11 09:49:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋