I divorced my ex-husband about 3 yrs ago. We divorced thinking that we would get back together. Since then, we have remained in contact. He lives 3000 miles away. He has custody of my 14 yr old daughter.
My daughter came to visit me this summer and I promised her I would come back. My ex needs help with her on a daily basis. I did not go back as planned, but am not able to focus on my life here.
I feel depressed because I let my ex and daughter down. I did not go back because I saw his controlling and abusive behavior continuing. He is also very money-minded and I thought that this would continue also.
Now, I am constantly in two minds what to do. I have thought of going and living separately in the same state that they live, but he will not let me do that also. He will say you are wasting money, come stay with me, etc.
Now, based on reading my past e-mails, he says that I am selfish and its all about me and me and me.
2006-11-11
02:04:47
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Stareyes
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Marriage & Divorce