has had sex with his female friends? I am not the jealous type I am fine with my guy having female friends but it's very uncomfortable for me knowing that he has slept with them. I know they have a bond now. He hangs out with them a lot and they club together since I don't like to. Should I show this guy the door??
2006-11-11
01:57:44
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goldengirl
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➔ Singles & Dating
And of course they are all gorgeous :/
2006-11-11
01:58:08 ·
update #1
sorry..I meant to say Should it make me nervous that MY BOYFRIEND..?
2006-11-11
02:03:17 ·
update #2
It's a long distance relationship
2006-11-11
04:12:01 ·
update #3
Get rid of him, girl. Don't waste your time on him.
2006-11-11 02:04:23
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Yeah I think the show him the door would be most appropiate at this time he is more interested in the woman or women he is sleeping with rather than you...If he doesn't see that he has a nice woman all the time with him then that is his loss..I would let him go simply it is not making you happy if anything it is making you more and more uncomfortable...and that is not the way you want to live your life...Also before you show him the door explain to him why it has to go this way, I know he will probably take the offer and run but that only shows that this is what he wanted in the first place...So wish him luck show him the door and find a man that is worthy of your attention..That is what I would do if I was in your shoes.
2006-11-11 10:06:08
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answered by beagirl40 4
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Sounds like you are an insecure person. Its ok to have "friends" of the oposite sex. Maybe you should show some interest in something he likes, go to the club once in a while, that shows the others that hes yours now, sorta like "marking your territory". Relationships are usually a give & take thing. Otherwise, maybe you should move on..
2006-11-11 10:07:54
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answered by ~*LILY*~ 2
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Obviously, for you to ask the qestion, you are not comfortable with the situation. You should talk to him about this and tell him honestly that you are concerned. Or you can go to club with them and see for yourself if there is anything you should be worried about. Then, decide if you can stay in this situation or not. Good luck!
2006-11-11 10:08:02
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answered by Sweetie 3
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If he chooses to hang out with gorgeous girls...I would say that you are too. If you don't like his friends with "benefits" then I would say that you should find someone that is not that way. Even if he says that he'll stop, you will always wonder and that will undermine your relationship anyways.
2006-11-11 10:03:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Relax and be honest with yourself, you are never going to get another guy like him or anything else come to that. Shut up whining and enjoy the time he does spend with you...also watch the weight.no one wants a fatty for a partner xx (except fatties depserate insecure or black guys )
2006-11-11 10:03:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Show the guy the door. Your not comfortable with the situation and my guess you weren't when you did it. It goes against your beliefs and the person you are. Why be something your not...he's not worth it. Are you?
2006-11-11 10:04:04
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answered by wisehahn 2
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yes it is very uncomfortable. but most guys are like that. remember he is just your boyfriend not your husband. you cant control him. if you love him just be happy with him and take life easily. dont bother to think about it, i know it hurts, if you think you dont love him then just forget him.most of all talk to him and get a clear answer before you decide anything.
2006-11-11 10:13:17
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answered by Anonymous
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If you are as uncomfortable as you say you are, then why even ask? You need to let him go and find one who is into you more than other girls.
2006-11-11 10:04:30
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answered by Mjt 1
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please tell me that this story is untrue and that you are so bored that you came up with this scenario to post on Yahoo?
no?
okay, LEAVE. dont have to show him the door.
YOU go OUT through that door.
- he shows you NO respect
- he doesnt love you. he doesnt.
- he is walking all over you like a carpet.
you enjoy all that?
2006-11-11 10:02:42
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answered by Anna D 4
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Show him the door before you get burned hunny!---and you know that it is only a matter of time before you do.
2006-11-11 10:01:21
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answered by JJ 2
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