2006-11-11 02:02:18 · 8 answers · asked by hummingbird 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do you think he doesn't already know that? Do you think there's really anything he can do about it? It's not like he can just jump on the next flight home and make it better for you. Do you really think he wants to be there? Send him letters and emails telling him good things that are happening. It's ok to tell him you miss him, but don't make him feel like it's his fault that your life sucks without him around.
2006-11-11 04:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sheila T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an ex Viet Nam Vet/POW, we know exactly how hard it is back in the States. It isnt easy being away from friends and family fighting a war for our country so everyone back here can be free. It isnt like we are spending our days at an amusement park or anything but to know all is well and youre doing just fine makes all the difference being in a foreign country. So send uplifting letters, telling him just how proud of him you and your friends are, and he ll be eager to get home where we all belong
2006-11-11 10:35:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you so stupid that you think he is having a good time? You start writing him a bunch of whinny **** about how hard your life is and he will soon start throwing the letters away without opening them. What he needs now is love, support, and to know that you can cope with the kids and the broken car/appliances. Try to lay a guilt trip on him and you will lose him. What he would really appreciate from you is a sexually explit letter/email about how you miss his touch, etc.... and what you are going to do for him sexually when he gets home.
2006-11-11 10:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by lollipop 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he already knows that it is difficult for you. I have no doubt it is difficult for both of you. I know it is tough, but now more than ever your man needs your support and understanding. When you got married, you made promises to each other. Now is a time of trials for those promises. For any relationship to work you have to be there and be strong in tough times. If it is worth having, it is worth working for. Hang in there and stick to those promises you made. In the future, you will look back on this and be proud of yourself for sticking it out.
2006-11-11 10:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by William E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For petes sakes doesn't he have enough to worry about? Send him happy letters, he doen't like being away from family and friends anymore then you not liking being away from him, But you are lucky to be in a safe place, not like where he is!
2006-11-11 10:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sure he knows sweetie, he has a tough job to do and needs to focus on that. He needs to know you love him and support him and can not wait for his return.
2006-11-11 10:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he knows you should foucus on something else and I know it's hard to do that but have a romantic night out remember he is watching people die out there so be carefull what you say and he wont die you have me and gods protection over his so dont worrie be happy.
2006-11-11 10:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to do that ?
He can't do anything about it .
You will just upset him & he
may screw up and get hurt
thinking & worrying about you .
2006-11-11 12:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋