2006-11-11 01:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by chubby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
flirt, sure. physical contact??? lap dance, maybe. fondeling or sex - NO. I wouldn't do that to my wife.
BJ - again maybe, because my wife doesn't do that and I do miss them.
2006-11-11 01:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is superfluous. The very fact that an opinion has been called on the matter presupposed that somebody does not think it appropriate. And it is not appropriate.Flirting by young unmarried boys and girls stands on a dfferent footing It is an investment in a happy marriage. The dark suggestion about mixing up with bachelor party and there close contact with a member also shows a detesting attitude on the part of the man.
If he wanted to have all these liberties he should never have gone in for a marriage.Even if we ignore the spiritual aspect of the marriage vows even the most mundane aspect would presuppose mutual trust and goodwill.
2006-11-11 02:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on guys...we all know that nothing happens at bachelor parties. It's just a bunch of guys drinking and talking about football. :) Right? :)
You women have nothing to worry about...IF any of your guys actually admit that there were strippers at a bachelor party, they were all so fat and ugly they had to cone in thru the garage with bags over their heads.
2006-11-11 02:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm Im torn right here because of the fact.... Your husband wouldn't have lied to you. mendacity is in no way ok in a marriage. exceedingly in case you have and sat down with him previously hand and stated the way you experience approximately strip golf equipment. even though He must be allowed to attend buddies/family contributors bachelor events with out hectic your gonna initiate international conflict 3. For me in my marriage, I haven't any issue with strip golf equipment, as long as its not an daily each and all of the time situation. yet once you and your husband, like all different guy or woman who commented, have desperate strip golf equipment=cheating(which btw i think of is the main ridiculous situation ever) then your husband owes you an apology, era. i could advise, sooner or later..attempting somewhat compromise. at a similar time as you're able to desire to not desire him going to strip golf equipment on a regularly occurring foundation, he must be waiting to attend on particular activities. in any different case, he will probably only lie to you back.very such as an adolescent sneaking out to attend a occasion they comprehend mom wouldnt approve of...and you dont incredibly must be mom, do you?
2016-10-21 21:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by dampier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at a bachelor party it would be mostly guys (except for the stripper), so are you talking about contact with another guy, Gaylord?!
2006-11-11 02:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't desirable and it is stupid. A little flirting can stroke the ego but the physical contact isn't cool and safe. Be smart.
2006-11-11 01:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by wisehahn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one. i am getting married and i too worry about him being enticed by a stripper/hoe! if he truly loves you and has respect for you he wont do anything he shouldn't. now of course and i am dealing with this, he will look at these girls dancing and shaking their nasty p**sy's in his face, we as women can only hope and pray i that situation that they as men will control them selves and respect their marriage !!!!! good luck!!!!!
2006-11-11 02:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desirable? not really. But it happens.
2006-11-11 02:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the temptation is greater eh?
the answer is NO. the keyword in your question? - married.
2006-11-11 01:57:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anna D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say its desirable, but what his wife dont know, wont kill her
2006-11-11 01:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋