Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

because whenever me and my boyfriend have the opputunity to have sex he always making excuses its like whenever he feel like he wants to have sex thats when we have sex, but what about when i want to?we been together three years and when we first met we had sex 4 times a day now its like he doesnt enjoy my sex anymore, someone please help.

2006-11-11 03:16:11 · 17 answers · asked by cookie 1 in Singles & Dating

In chat rooms for the older and wiser, I find it strange. If we are older and wiser, then why do older women still get jealous and cause trouble for other women in the chat rooms?

2006-11-11 03:14:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

are u more attracted to blondes or brunettes?

2006-11-11 03:13:32 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 03:11:56 · 18 answers · asked by know me better 1 in Friends

2006-11-11 03:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by the girl next door 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 03:10:59 · 18 answers · asked by Fariha 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My children and I are about to be evicted, we have very little food, the electric is about to be cut off, etc... How do i go about getting this idiot to pay what he should. I have gone thru the channels and they treat me like the bad guy. I am the one struggling and trying to make a better life for my kids by going to nursing school, while this guy is out living large, he has no one but hisself to take care of. Cause he sure is not paying his part to help me take care of the child we made. If anyone is going thru this or anyone has good advice, please feel free to respond. Serious responses only please.

2006-11-11 03:10:58 · 16 answers · asked by BabygirlSr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hm

2006-11-11 03:10:55 · 10 answers · asked by cyberwarlocklord 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 03:10:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-11 03:10:01 · 12 answers · asked by Belinda J 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 03:09:46 · 21 answers · asked by tjm1974 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 03:09:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think it is safe to wait till 30 to start having a lot of kids?

2006-11-11 03:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by LOVELY LADY 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and dating a seemingly perfect man who is 26. He has been married and "burned" during that relationship. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he hasn't made a move. No hand holding, no cuddling, no kissing.....nothing. He told me he likes me and that he just moves incredibly slow and wants to get to know a person really well. At first it was fine, but know I'm starting to worry. I feel the chemistry, but I am scared to make a move and scare him. Any suggestions or advice?

2006-11-11 03:08:46 · 15 answers · asked by t n 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 03:08:32 · 8 answers · asked by ALICE B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 03:07:25 · 34 answers · asked by yvonne p 2 in Weddings

2006-11-11 03:06:11 · 21 answers · asked by harie 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a 4-yr relationship with my boyfriend and we have been living together for the last 2 years. However, I still see myself looking over singles' profiles in the Internet with the hope of seeing and meeting interesting people. My boyfriend caught me 'browsing' one time and I felt awfully bad because he was hurt wondering why I was still doing it. As I probed deeper today, I realized I may just be wanting to rekindle what it felt like to 'flirt' again and be excited in a relationship. My boyfriend and I are good and I think he's a wonderful man, but oftentimes I feel there is no longer any spark and we're just immersed in our own respective work. I know, too, that what I did was immature, but do my feelings justify my action? Am I a bad person? What can I do to keep myself from doing it again?

2006-11-11 03:05:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i realize that everyone is self-centered to a point, but i have a friend who is very much all about herself. she has pissed off all of her friends.. ALL of them, since getting a boyfriend who is a total wet blanket. she started dating him 4 months ago, and all of her friends have told her how much she has changed, but she just hears that she is pushing her friends away, but she still just goes futher into her new boyfriends shadow, and we have no hope of getting her to see reality.
her boyfriend is "different", shall we say from all of us, we do things (partying) that he doesn't see any need for, in his life, which i completely respect.
however, i am having a hard time respecting my friends choices. its like they are from two different worlds but she doesn't see how that pushes us out. is there any hope? general rules give her a couple months to get over this crap-- its been FOUR!
if the changes are permanent than i think i am going to eventually lose my "best friend".advice?

2006-11-11 03:05:21 · 13 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3 in Friends

he put his hands on it.I was nervouse and did nothing but freeze up.What should i do

2006-11-11 03:05:00 · 7 answers · asked by Billy T 6 in Singles & Dating

Prior to our marriage, my husband and I had a turbulent relationship. We were constantly breaking-up. It was a constant roller coaster ride. For example, he constantly wanted to be "alone", to by himself for awhile and so we broke up....and when we got back together, he kept on getting calls from this woman. It's obvious he was playing the field. This insane woman kept on calling and he eventually changed his number. He denies ever dating her, but I know he did! While this happened during our break-up which was only 3 weeks to a month, and it's not "technically" cheating....I'm still so angry that he was not forthcoming. I'm angry that he kept on using the excuse that he wanted to be "alone", when in fact he just wanted to date others. This is all in the past.....but I cannot get pass it. Somedays I'm fine, and somedays I'm just so angry with myself for getting back together with him. I feel I have to punish him in some way. I know it's juvenile, but I get sooo angry.

2006-11-11 03:04:49 · 32 answers · asked by Snowflakes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 03:04:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 03:04:00 · 1 answers · asked by Larry K 2 in Friends

ok...there is this guy from church...i like him ALOT...i think he likes me...but idk...he flirts w/ me...and i flirt w/ him back...weve been friends 4 like 6 yrs...and every sun. in church i sense sum1 staring @ me...then i look up...the guy that i like is staring @ me...then he looks away real fast...it happens all thru church...i want 2 go out w/ him...im thinking of havin my best friend do it...but idk...i would do it myself...but im 2 much of a wimp...should i have my friend do it...and im also doin a musical for choir, but im 2 afraid 2 ask him 2 come and watch me...o ya...im a freshman (14) and hes an 8th grader (14 also)...what should i do about this whole deal w/ me and him??...and do u think he likes me??...plz help...thanx

2006-11-11 03:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by cool chic 2no 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy I met a while ago and we went out for like 2 weeks then he cut me for my bestfriend. I still talked to him after but we were in different highschools. He would ask me all of these questions like Are you shaved and still a virgin? But supposedly we were still friends. Now I moved back and were at te same school. I talked to him a while back and he' s still saying the same thing. How pretty I am and how I should model. Then I showed up to school and there is with another girl. Now every time I see him I can't help but be jealous but at the same time I hate him with desire for how much he hurt me. And I tried to get over him in so many ways.

2006-11-11 03:02:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 03:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

45 yr attractive female. Divorced. Kids grown up and on their own. I dated/lived with a man for 5 yrs. Left due to verbal abuse, fighting, sucking my soul dry. 2 yrs later we are dating again. He's changed(really!) and wants to get married, buy a house, travel, live happily everafter....EVERYTHING I wanted when we were together but he wouldn't commit. Now he says he doesn't ever want to lose me again, emotionally available, basically everything a woman would want.
I am torn between being 45...I should have the husband, house, etc.
I like him but don't love him the way I did before...maybe too much pain. I'm not excited, just okay. I don't laugh or smile much with him..I'm bored.
I could pay off my debts, help my kids(college), get a new car desperately needed, house, etc. Everything I want. Everything soceity thinks I should do. Or I can keep it the way it is and live payck to payck and be alone in my apartment and maybe meet someone new eventually.
Advice/thoughts??

2006-11-11 03:01:51 · 9 answers · asked by ltsha44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well im pretty in shape , i weigh 120 and i have preety large boobs for my age and a big *** too.. well my question is that once i ate 10 hamburgers in one day and i think about food all day and i will do anything for food! but im obssesed with working out! i really dont know why and after i work out i just go back and eat a whole lot!! do i need help?

2006-11-11 03:00:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been with my boyfriend about 1 1/2 years and i still don't know if i can trust him. I have trust issues anyway so i'm not sure if it's me or if he is untrustworthy.

His friends have cheated on their girlfriends and once he told me about when his friend cheated on his pregnant girlfriend and agreed that he thought his friend had to because this girl was so fit.

my boyfriend always looks at other people when i'm there so what is he like when i'm not.

I'm really againist cheating and would never do it to him and i admit that i'm quite a jelous person sometimes.

Should i just be more laid back with him and trust him?

2006-11-11 03:00:39 · 14 answers · asked by JD 2 in Singles & Dating

hmmm

2006-11-11 02:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by cyberwarlocklord 3 in Singles & Dating