No, you do not need a boyfriend at 14! There is plenty of time for that later. People who feel pressured into having a relationship just to prove something will often make mistakes that are hard or impossible to correct.
Just consider guys friends for now. It is a good time to analyze what things you admire in a guy, and to observe relationships of guys and girls around you. Think about what works for them and what doesn't.
Develop self confidence before getting involved with someone. Also develop in yourself the kinds of things that you hope a guy would admire. Looks are one important thing, but not the most important thing. Be sure that your character is good and that it is showing. The guys worth having admire character.
When the time is right, you will know it and be comfortable with it.
2006-11-11 03:37:48
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answered by Jane 3
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It depends upon ur state, if at all u feel that u don't have any person to share ur feelings with u surely can have a boyfriend at the age of 14!!
But according to me, there is a perfect time for every particular thing to do in life!, Why should u have a boyfriend at this age when u know are immature urself to make any kind of proper decisions, and what made u feel like having a boyfriend?!!, does any of your friends share the same idea of boyfriends!!
Please don't fall into a trap by getting into boyfriend bussiness, at one point of time during ur involvement into this relationship, he may just use and dump u!!, Then what will u do?
Please enlighten urself by concentrating on the other aspects of life like ur studies, career, friends, family, parents etc
And ....No wonder in course of years a promising boyfriend may come across u !! so all the best
2006-11-11 12:26:06
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answered by Nilima L 2
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no u don't need a bf at 14 rather u need good Friend circle at this age. Ur age is such that u'll get attracted to one or the other guy thinking it Ur love for him but its actually infatuation which is a feeling of being in love and only an attraction. u must have lot of Friends as u need to spend lots of time with them but don't think of a bf until u make Ur good career.
2006-11-13 01:58:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Are you in dire need of one BF? You silly lass trying to end up in hell.Concentrate on your studies first be matured enough to think of romance.Currently there is no news that there going to be a shortage of Boy Friends.Then why in a hurry?
2006-11-11 14:28:11
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answered by JILMAAL 2
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i dont think so that u need one at this age.u r in the age when i think it would be better for you to concentrate on your studies dear,i dont know what u personaly feel but according to me u dont need to have one.why dont you just go for an simple relationship of friendship types with guys.rest is up to you.i think u must be in class 9 or 10 and so best of luck for your board exams.
2006-11-11 13:44:33
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answered by kute rajpoot 1
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Its all relative - I know a girl who has only had one date in her entire life and she's 39 going on 40! I'm pretty sure she's miserable - maybe she needs some self improvement?
2006-11-11 11:19:08
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answered by AngelKidd+JeffKidd 3
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giiirrrlll believe me. no need to rush to have a boyfriend. theyre too stressful. you may think you have feelings for someone but its just puppy love. your young. i wasnt even aloud to have a boyfriend till i was 16. you guys can be friends but boys your age arent really interested in girls. and plus too many things like herpes and hiv is going around. be safe.
2006-11-11 11:48:29
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answered by KDUB100 2
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surely no you can wait for some years to pass but you can always have good friends around and not think about this thing too much.When the right one comes your heart will understand and guide you.in the END all depends on you.
2006-11-11 11:57:13
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answered by Life's Good!! 3
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u don't need one, u gotta have one.choose whoever is interestin 2 u n choose someone strong. n if there's already one in sight jus propose him i.e if ur pretty. jus kiddin. n if ur still in search, i'm single n i'm 14.
2006-11-11 14:40:46
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answered by nayan 1
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No you don't really need one,but if you want one then find you one.If you don't think that the right boy has come along to you to you then just wait until he comes if thats what you want.
2006-11-11 11:19:00
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answered by *be_23* 3
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