ok...there is this guy from church...i like him ALOT...i think he likes me...but idk...he flirts w/ me...and i flirt w/ him back...weve been friends 4 like 6 yrs...and every sun. in church i sense sum1 staring @ me...then i look up...the guy that i like is staring @ me...then he looks away real fast...it happens all thru church...i want 2 go out w/ him...im thinking of havin my best friend do it...but idk...i would do it myself...but im 2 much of a wimp...should i have my friend do it...and im also doin a musical for choir, but im 2 afraid 2 ask him 2 come and watch me...o ya...im a freshman (14) and hes an 8th grader (14 also)...what should i do about this whole deal w/ me and him??...and do u think he likes me??...plz help...thanx
2006-11-11 03:02:35 · 8 answers · asked by cool chic 2no 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sre its so much...but i have 2 get everything in
2006-11-11 03:07:59 · update #1
yes! he likes you, you already know this so stop acting like a five year old and go talk to him tomorrow at church. it is ridiculous to send your best friend to go talk to him... i remember doing stuff like that when i was around your age, but i look back on it now -- i am 27--- like it was very immature and ridiculous. don't make excuses for yourself that you are a wimp or too shy, just stand up for your own, and go talk to the kid, i promise that he will want to hang with you, it is pretty obvious.
2006-11-11 03:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does like you if you keep catching him staring at you. It's good that the two of you are friends. The age difference is not big and there's nothing wrong with the girl being in the higher grade. As the two of you are friends, just say you would appreciate if he would come and support you. Take the plunge, screw up the courage, and ask him. It's respectable to share the truth and tell him your feelings.At that point, he may confess that he has feelings and will ask you out. Good luck. I hope things work out.
2006-11-11 03:09:20 · answer #2 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he likes you hes just shy and wants to ask you out but is too shy so he just looks at you all through church you have to make the 1st move not your friend because what if he gets the wrong message and thinks you don't like him
2006-11-11 03:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by stephiepoohbearcats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this guy who is my really good friend. hell start flirtng with me and ill flirt back. i start having a crush on him but then i see him flirt with other girls. i have no idea who this guy is just be sure hes not some jerk. and if you really do want to go out with him i would have a mutual friend of you two talk to him and see who he likes and if he would want to go out with you
2006-11-11 03:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Angie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only get to live once, so Yes ask him out personally. Don't ask a friend to do it, because that is just too immature & insincere. If you really like him, do it yourself. Find out his favorite food, cook it / buy it and give it to him. ask him if he likes it and ask him out then. good luck.
2006-11-11 03:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by BlueGirl007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he ain't the reverend just go up to him and use a good ice-breaker (...a joke) and try seeing him outside the church, see how it goes.
PS: if he is the reverend, just leave it be.
2006-11-11 03:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by Trey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You be bold enough to approach him directly. You have been dragging for too long.
2006-11-11 03:09:00 · answer #7 · answered by rafiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont type that much to much to read lady
2006-11-11 03:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋