Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

My friend seems to take everything so personally. I told him, "not everything is about you!" My roommate doesn't like him, and asked me not to have him over to the house. So my friend flips out and brings up OTHER issues that upset him. He can't stick to the subject, which is, his feelings are hurt. What a big baby. How do you get through to someone like that??

2006-11-11 04:06:05 · 6 answers · asked by flip4it 4 in Friends

i am only 15 and freshman. the guy i like is 18 and a senior. i dont know what to do. we started off as. then i started to get feelings for him. what should i do? can anyone help with this problem?

2006-11-11 04:04:04 · 20 answers · asked by Felicia D 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is a hippie. He attends music festivals all over the country (I have been to a few in MN and I have started to love them). I dont know what to get him for christmas. I want to get him something that would be useful at one of these festivals, but I dont know what to get or where to get it...I know he would like a walking stick, but I wouldnt know where to look. If anyone has any other ideas I would greatly appreciate it!!

2006-11-11 04:03:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sara S 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you like it to be? Give your answer also if you want.

2006-11-11 04:02:50 · 12 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy I'm dating. It is kind of a LDR, we live like a two hour drive apart. Well we got together and had sex for the first time on Wednesday night and he seemed like he really really liked me then. Then on Friday we sent like five or six emails back and forth to each other, just chatting. We just kept replying to each other's emails and sending more all day. I asked him if he wanted to get together on Monday and he wrote back and said it depends on when because he already had plans that night with his friends. So I wrote back last night and said basically that I understood he was busy, etc, and it was okay if we didn't get together. Now he hasn't reponded yet. Did I come on too strong? Do I need to back off a little?

2006-11-11 04:02:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last night i went to visit my ex-gf at 5:30 in the morning after i had called 15 time after she got off from work. Now when i was leaving she was in a car with another guy and it was a guy from work that she said was her buddy but now he has all these feelings for her but she dont feel the same way because she says she still loves me. I am really confused about this situation. she also told me they kissed and it did not mean anything to her because she could not quit thinking about me. whats up people help me out here???

2006-11-11 04:01:29 · 14 answers · asked by ericlouisville1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 04:00:35 · 52 answers · asked by shryock_ct 1 in Weddings

Whats it called when someone tells you not to do something cuz its bad but yet he/she does it him/herslf?

2006-11-11 03:59:12 · 18 answers · asked by Sara W 1 in Family

Okay, I still luv my ex- boyfriend he left me 4 another gurl.. and he still luvs me .. okay let me tell u: he smies on me, hit me in a "Gentel" way.. and i still luv him, i call him, i let him sit beside me in the lunch room, let him go through my purse.. i jus don't get this at all.. so should i ask him out again and see wat he say? or should i move on ? tell me wat u think.. okay thank u very much!! bye!!!!!!

2006-11-11 03:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Need opinions! Very curious.

2006-11-11 03:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by murmic05 3 in Singles & Dating

I meed to Raul in a party and he is very amusing and he is good dancing and he drink beer. I out with him at night and I have a good sex with him, is a good men in the bed... yes!
I After time I meet to Sergio to skating with my best friends he is good skating and is very attractive and is very special with me I out with him in the afternoon but he think that I am virgin. I never have sex with him only delicious kisses
Now I need an advice because is like I have two diferents personality. I like change my life. I love them... what can I do?

2006-11-11 03:58:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my life is filled with so much drama sometimes it gets hard to tell whats real and whats not. my friendships are a huge mess because he said that she said that he said (you know what i mean)my love life is a big joke to the one and only that i care about and my family is going through a terrible time and no one knows how to cope.my grades are going way down and its hard to keep up or even concentrate wile im in school, half of the time i dont even know what im doing in my classes or even how i got there because i go into trance like stages were all i do is think and the world just goes on around me. i just need some ideas on how to keep myself from falling apart. if all i get is just a few words ill be happy or happier than the usual. id really appreciate it if you wouldnt mind giving me a few words of wisdom. thanks

2006-11-11 03:57:48 · 28 answers · asked by ash 1 in Friends

Right now boyfrined is in vegas and he broke up with 4 days ago and he tells me if i ever wanna talk to him i have to call him from my house phone and if i leave he will never go back out with me, i still love him but i am not allowed to go even see my mom, but he refuses to go back out with me becuase what happen a year ago when we broke up

2006-11-11 03:57:35 · 15 answers · asked by DEE 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had to do this after losing my job.

2006-11-11 03:57:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im currently divorsing my husband of 2 years as he cheat on me many times and got one of the woman pregnant. However he was the one who left me as I was raped a year into our marriage and he says this was the reason he cheated as he couldnt cope with the thought of what those men did to me. I have be separated from him for almost a year now and feel its time to move on, however anytime Im in a club i end up being chatted up by married men who only want a one night stand whic is not what im looking for. Any ideas would be a great help...thanks

2006-11-11 03:54:28 · 10 answers · asked by laurenj677 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so I have a personal trainer and I know think after debating this online for a week that he likes me, he says I'm cute, his favorite client, gives me messages and tell me I can call him whenever well yesterday he asked me to come in today for a run together and not on a session....do you think he likes me...and do you think I should have an "accident" and need help to strech ? Opinions do all trainers do this...oh by the way do most trainers call at night to see how you feel after the workout...or am i right to think this could be something? By the way I would be just as happy with a bang and no relationship (only in this case)

2006-11-11 03:53:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First thanks for all the answers. it appears that my husband talks to another woman every week, sometimes 2 to 3 times a week. I tryed to search for her name using www.intelius.com but it comes back with no report. I dont want to hire PI now untill he starts to behave worse. In other words, he spend the night with me every night. he doesnt go out alone. he is home right after he gets off work. the problem is every one of his single married friend has a girl friend besides their wives. HE always tells me that i am the best woman he has ever had. he even tells me that he is so happy in t he bed with me. this is killing me. so how can get a name for all those people that he talked to only when he is not with me. most of the time he would not answer his phone and he wouldnot call back untill he leaves me, i make sure to keep record of the time he receives that call, so i can go check his phone record and confirm his lies. i used the reverse phone number check,but no result yet

2006-11-11 03:52:57 · 15 answers · asked by lou b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We broke up about 5 days ago, because I felt like he was not working on his future goals. I motivated him in so many different way about getting a good job and going back to school. 2 years of the relationship he did not have a real job. He like to hustle for money. It was not drugs it was appliances, e.t.c. He helped me out when ever he could, he showed me support and everything. He was what a woman could want in a man, but he did not do much for himself. I truly love him, but our future was not going anywhere. It was the same routine. I do not know if I did the right thing or not. I miss him. And now all of a sudden he has a job and he going back to school.

2006-11-11 03:52:05 · 21 answers · asked by no way out 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that sits behind me in my homeroom... I think he likes me... and I like him. We became friends a month or so ago, so I don't know him that much, but enough to know I want to be his girlfriend. I am pretty sure he likes me, but he is too shy to ask me out. Also, there are four other girls who like him. Should I tell him I like him? *Half the girls in our grade know I like him already, because a blabber mouth overheard! Now whenever he walks by someone says "There goes your love," but I still don't think he knows.

2006-11-11 03:52:01 · 8 answers · asked by LUVxLIKExWINTR 2 in Singles & Dating

my favorite cousin wont listen to me...she is always doing something else and she doesnt help me do u think she cares about me?

2006-11-11 03:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-11 03:50:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

rubs shoulders, grabs you by hips when walking by etc.

2006-11-11 03:48:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is always going out

2006-11-11 03:48:29 · 22 answers · asked by Lawrence H 1 in Singles & Dating

We are in our 40s and married 5 yrs .My son needed 4 dollars and I told him to ask my husband for it and get my husbands wallet that was in the other room and my husband shot back and said loud and firm dont touch that wallet! I said what do you mean dont touch your wallet and he said I dont get in yours! Well I was shocked and felt very hurt and embarressed in front of my son he is 20 and he siad whoa! I still am shocked and hurt ! This is the first time I ever asked for money and going to touch his wallet! What do u think?Am I valid on feeling bad?

2006-11-11 03:47:27 · 20 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 03:47:04 · 13 answers · asked by james h 1 in Family

Do you have to be married? Can you do it with a full-time job? Can you do weekend fostering - sort of restbite care?

2006-11-11 03:46:42 · 13 answers · asked by helen g 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know she is not gonna like it and i feel like i'm disrespecting her for it because it make it seem like i reject black women in favor of the white women. but thats not true. but the prob is that black girls always diss me and the white girls never diss me, so thats why my GF is white.

should I tell my moms? My GF wonna meet her.

2006-11-11 03:44:36 · 22 answers · asked by kwon 1 in Family

ok i have a problem with being to jealous, and it drives my hubby crazy can you help, im attractive and guys dig me but whats my problem

2006-11-11 03:44:31 · 7 answers · asked by babylove 1 in Friends

We don't want to have any guests at all. Just me, her and a priest, then retreat to a gorgeous hotel for the honeymoon. If anyone has eloped or knows someone who has, how did they do it? Did they call a priest ahead of time, and told him they'll be stopping by for a wedding? Are there places near Eastern PA, or the NJ and NY area that are there just to conduct weddings for eloping couples?

2006-11-11 03:44:05 · 7 answers · asked by masterloverman 1 in Weddings

How do u get a guy to notice u?

2006-11-11 03:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating