I had to do this after losing my job.
2006-11-11 03:57:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are guys and people who will judge you no matter what. But you have to do what you need to do to survive. My bf was living with his parents when I met him, he is a single parent too. Many people we worked with would say "he's a loser". But things happened in his life and he really had no other choice. Ive had my share of bad luck too. I didn't judge him on "where" he was, it's all about "who" he is that makes me love him.
If a guy treats you like its a negative thing, find someone else. You need to do what's best for you and your child.
2006-11-11 04:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe many men might not see it as a "negative" thing, but rather an imposition on their love life. Many men do not choose their words carefully, and therefore, might say it is a bad thing, when they mean i would like having More "quality time" with you. Some men, however, might also be possessive. Feeling parent might impose restraints or rules of which impede their desires of you.
I believe that upon closer examination of the "man", his beliefs, his being supportive and whether,or not, he is possessive; will lead you and your heart to decide whether,or not, this is the man for you and your child. After all, the child right now, and his/her welfare, are what matters most.
In other words, do not allow yourself, and especially your child, to be lead off with a man who places only himself first and has little understanding for you and your baby's needs. Right now, it appears, your parent is your support.Hold onto that support while you determine whether he will be as supportive or more supportive in your life and times.
You can not find "New Parents"of whom love and support you; you can, however, find a man who will. Finding someone appreciative, understanding and willing to give first, and receive second, is a major plus in any woman's life.
Best of wishes and hope for the future always.
2006-11-11 12:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what guys think about your situation. it only matters what u think.
i think u r feeling a little insecure right now, well i don't think u should. situations like this happen every single day. what r u soppose to do live on the street. its not your fault that u don't have a job.
the way i see for u to increase your self esteem, why don't u do something so that u can go out and live on your own. find another job or take a course that will help u find a new job. once u got a job and the daycare part is settled go out and look for your own place.
2006-11-11 12:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Miki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this is a wonderful opportunity for a child to get to know their grandparents. In fact this can be a very positive way for a child to bond with these people. In many cultures two or three generations live together. I did this myself with my daughter when she was little. She is twenty four and has a wonderful warm and caring relationship with her elderly grandfather. This has given him an enormous amount of love and encouragement while he has been battling cancer. Never feel guilty just remember everything happens for a reason and nothing but good will come of this time that you all spend together. God bless.
2006-11-11 12:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! You rather be homeless with ur child...U R blessed to have your parent to help you and your little one and if someone thinks bad of it...Forget them...Good luck in getting urself together, you have a great opportunity to make it even better than before with your parents help right now...Plus your child has the luruxy of having the grandparents around, that's wonderful..
I had the same experience...Now I care for my elderly mom, who needs me today...This is life your living and only narrow minded people wont understand..
2006-11-11 12:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by Kibs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really, there are a lot of young people who don't live with their parents, but their parents are paying for everything, which makes it look worse.
2006-11-11 12:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys can't save you so why does it matter. What God thinks about you is what matters right now. Read your Bible and it is like looking in a mirror. You will see what you look like in God's eyes.Cry out to Him. You need Him.
2006-11-11 12:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by MSNRY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, I don't. but only if parents are ok about it
2006-11-11 11:59:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kanade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋