Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

I was involved with this guy first as friends and then it turned into more. He said he loved me. He said he couldn't live without me. He said I meant the world to him. I believed him. Then he just ends it like nothing ever mattered, like we were just buddies or something. How do I stop being hurt all the time? It seems like I'm always the one who gets hurt in relationships. Should I never believe another guy again? Am I an unlovable person? How can I stop this hurt? I feel sick to my stomach and I can't stop crying. I just want the pain to stop.

2006-11-11 04:47:22 · 20 answers · asked by k b 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:47:06 · 2 answers · asked by Vikram Jeet J 1 in Friends

Ok, im 19 years old and my girlfriend of 1 year just dumped me. we have been friends on and off and had atrractions for one another since 6th grade. threw thick and thin. Now the other night she says that she is unhappy. I suffer with depression and i had to drag her through it. I am now almost 1 month into medication and i feel alot better and am improving. She knows this as well but she says she is scared things wont change. i know that she loves me with all her heart. i miss her so much and i feel that She is the one for me. I do not wish to let her go. People say let her go but thats not what i want to do. She is to the point where i belive she is agitated just talking to me. She has began working alot and she says that she needs time for what she wants to do. She wants to work, shop etc and not worry about a boyfriend. she also says sinc e we began dating we have both dumped all of our friends for each other. Nether of us have anyone now. I cant do this alone. I really do miss he

2006-11-11 04:45:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know it depends on how mature the child/ren are but there seems to be no legal age? My guideline I have used is 14.

2006-11-11 04:44:26 · 40 answers · asked by kaz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Doesn't matter if the guy is an drug abusing alcoholic, long time friend, or God loving, respectful, kind, considerate, balanced man... it just keeps happening. I know I will survive but how does it keep happening? Is never loving again the best solution? All of you that will think of responding that I have personality flaws and am unnatractive can just save it because you couldn't be further from the truth.

2006-11-11 04:43:01 · 16 answers · asked by - 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend yelled at me about something stupid, that had nothing to do with me. I'm angry. This was yesterday; should I hold out for apology or let it go, like usual? I don't want to send the message that I will tolerate that.

2006-11-11 04:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by mzindica 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:40:16 · 20 answers · asked by FreakGirl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 04:39:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. i'm really mad at one of my friends. I've tried ignoring her in the classes i have with her. But it isn't working. I want her to get the idea that i don't want to be friends. is there any way i can show that without telling her. She's bigger than i am so i can't just go up to her and tell her. My friends have given me pretty good suggestions but their suggestions will just get me in trouble. One of my friends said that matbe she knows that i don't want to be friends and she does want me to like her. Any suggestions? Nothing that will get me called down to the principals office. And no notes. She already got a threatening note by someone she doesn't know.

2006-11-11 04:38:37 · 13 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Friends

2006-11-11 04:38:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:38:15 · 4 answers · asked by cool nerd 4 in Friends

the more sexist i become. I used to be all about womens rights and all that. i used to think that all the women who complained about there men really were being mistreated by their men. I have come to realize that women just like to whine. If they have nothing to whine about, they will invent something. Women are just pathetic. I got absolutely nothing from my ex-wife that i couldnt have gotton from a hooker. NOTHING!!! Im so glad that we had no kids and that i talked her into signing a prenuptual agreement. She even tried overturn the prenup by claiming that i beat her. I never layed a finger on her. I have lost all respect for women. They are liars and only use men to benefit themselves.

2006-11-11 04:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a friend who continually likes to analyze our relationship. How do I tell him to shut up and bud out without being mean about it? Or do I ignore the comments?

2006-11-11 04:37:02 · 7 answers · asked by vwolf 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:36:31 · 12 answers · asked by mrnc420 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi my name is Trevor and I am 24 years old. Out of all the guys who have asked you out. What was it about the guy who made you say yes to. I Need dating advice.

2006-11-11 04:35:49 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married before and he hasn't.... we are usually 8 hrs apart b/c hes away at school.... we both talk about how much we know this is it... why not go ahead and get engaged now??

2006-11-11 04:35:04 · 28 answers · asked by hopelessly_in_love 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this friend that i have a crush on and he has a crush on me but he won't tell me. when his cousin which is one of my best friends tells him that we make a cute couple he agrees but when i was holding my friend in custody for a game, she's like "hey dill, get your girlfriend off of me!" but he tells us that he's not my boyfriend and that confuses me because he tells some people that i'm his girlfriend but he doesn't tell me. whenever i see him at lunch or whenever he sees me ha'll start talking to me and when we look out the window of our buses he will always start waving to me and he gets really excited when i wave back. since he knows where my locker is at school he tells me that i should watch out because he knows where it is. usually he will try to make me laugh when we are talking to eachother but when we pass by his cousin she will call us love birds and stuff in front of me and he'll sort of get mad only when i'm by him. am i his girlfriend or not?

2006-11-11 04:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can understand having money ready before you have kids, but unless you plan on letting your wife stay home all day, why can't she work too? You can get financially stable together! They say that so many marriages end in divorce, but that statistic is misleading. It doesn't count how many other relationships don't survive to even get to the point of marriage! most relationships end, it's not just marriages! So being financially ready isn't going to ensure your marriage will work; it just makes us think you don't want to marry us.

2006-11-11 04:34:31 · 13 answers · asked by advicemom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

is it true that most of the time arab/middle eastern man will have to marry an arab lady as their first wife.. for those muslims guys the 1st wife is always arab den the 2nd wife will be indonesian or chinese or another race? and i knew someone she is an indonesian and married a dubai man . yes she wear all the branded clothes/ wealthy in terms of money but it seems that her husband does not want to be seen with her being the fact that she is non middle eastern. and treated like a second class citizen..
so tell me is it true ?? any thoughts? correct me if im wrong . i'm open to all answers

2006-11-11 04:33:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 04:31:32 · 1 answers · asked by falcon41 1 in Friends

I have thought about adopting but don't know where to begin and would like to learn more about the entire process. Any help?

2006-11-11 04:31:10 · 4 answers · asked by ace 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex (male hoe) phoned me 2day..we still have talks but he does get a bit stupid after a while n i cut the call short (tries 2 get me 2 invite him over or go 2 his etc) which i'm not into as i have a new guy..anyway..we met up 2day in town (public places i allow ONLY) just to have a talk n a wlk round the town. he started getting all fruity again, so i thought i'd teach him a lesson..

we went to a lingerie store, i chose the raunchiest underwear n told him he can watch me try them on..i went into the changing room and said i'd call him when finished...i made him wait 10mins infront of the rooms and came out just as i went in (fully clothed) his face dropped...

i then made him buy me some food and come with me to my workplace where my work mate thought he was my man as he had his arm around my waist.i said to her (infront of him) "i ASSURE U HE ISNT MY MAN" He felt a way and said 2 me "Why did u say that 4?".. i then made out my home was free, when i knew my mum was due home..

2006-11-11 04:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:29:35 · 27 answers · asked by Evan C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:29:05 · 10 answers · asked by Rachel B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son really likes this girl in school. He's 12 and so is the girl. He write a love letter but she only likes him and that's it. Any help out there. Please don't put in answers saying 'Dunno' or anything like that because this is very serious and my son would do anything to get that girl. He wants sex but I say he's under age. Any help on that as well?

2006-11-11 04:28:16 · 33 answers · asked by Professor Frink 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 04:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy named t.j and there is a dance tonight but see my friend told him i liked him a couple mouths ago and he said that he wouldent wont to get bet up by my brother and i dont no what to do sould i tell him to hes face that i like him or not

2006-11-11 04:27:57 · 7 answers · asked by brooke j. 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont Judge me OK!?
So i am considering trying out for playboy but i dont know where to begin.
any ideas?
simple Q AND JUST NEED A SIMPLE ANSWER!
thanks

2006-11-11 04:27:12 · 13 answers · asked by bcb 1 in Singles & Dating

I am super frustrated with my bf. I think it comes down to the fact that I let him get away with everything and in the last 5 years. I have never heard him say I am sorry, nor have I gotten really mad him. This is because when I want to talk to him about something I think he has done wrong, he gets upset, starts to yell, covers his eyes and goes to sleep.

This weekend, was his friends birthday which lands on the same day as this other girl I don't get along with. (Long story there). Well my bf has never taken my side with this girl EVER. Anyhow, he took her out for dinner with his friend, told me I couldn't come. Then he told me he would come home after dinner or call me. He did neither. No Call and didn't come home til 4AM. He didn't even take his cell. Then he yells at me becuase I told him I think he could have borrowed someones phone to call me. He told me it was to loud in the room to call me..

I think what hurts me the most is he told me I couldn't come with him.

2006-11-11 04:25:41 · 25 answers · asked by adrienne k 1 in Singles & Dating

all my friends talk bout how great sex is and how i should it. this has been going on since middle school and now i'm a freshman. they have even lined up guys for me and they even call me the virgin mary. so not funny. what should i do? i need at advice. help please. anybody.

2006-11-11 04:25:34 · 27 answers · asked by Felicia D 1 in Singles & Dating