the more sexist i become. I used to be all about womens rights and all that. i used to think that all the women who complained about there men really were being mistreated by their men. I have come to realize that women just like to whine. If they have nothing to whine about, they will invent something. Women are just pathetic. I got absolutely nothing from my ex-wife that i couldnt have gotton from a hooker. NOTHING!!! Im so glad that we had no kids and that i talked her into signing a prenuptual agreement. She even tried overturn the prenup by claiming that i beat her. I never layed a finger on her. I have lost all respect for women. They are liars and only use men to benefit themselves.
2006-11-11 04:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well she didnt overturn it cause the courts knew she was a liar.
2006-11-11 04:45:08 · update #1
Wow....you must have been through some crazy sh*t to put all women in such a disrespectful category. Like men, women can be horrible but you have to realize that there are some good women out there. Your ex-wife sounds like a real nasty *****, so keep your negative comments circulating around her. Don't let this situation ruin your chances of having a healthy relationship with another woman. If you continue to feel angry and hurt seek help from a male counselor. I don't want to find articles about you strangling women in the newspaper!
2006-11-11 04:48:19 · answer #1 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your right you are sexist. Your former wife really did a number on you. Unfortunately you are far from alone.
Because of this experience you have put all women in the same category. If I were not a bit like you I guess I would still be married to my first wife.
When ever two people come together they have expectations. Clearly men and women have different expectations. We expect a continual flow of love and affection from the one we love. They expect you to not only be their lover but their best friend who will listen to their problems and try not to be one of them.
On the face of it....it seems impossible. But it truly is not.
Who we pick as a partner makes all the difference. And attraction is the true key to happiness. If that attraction is lost....for whatever reason.....both men and women feel like they are living with a brother or sister and that is not what they wanted.
I am married again. Is it perfect. Hell no. But I....unlike you....did not see all women through my first wife's eyes. She now knows what she lost in me and in her lover. She lives alone.
Please do not become bitter about women. Your whole life will be controlled by it and to what end. Not all women are liars and not all women are out to take you for what ever they can get. There are some that will have far more than you.
What we learn about each other.....before we marry...is the key.
And about getting older. I am 65 and divorced my first wife of 37 years when 62. I still find women fascinating. Not the enemy.
2006-11-11 13:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REALITY CHECK....You are the most sexist, chauvinistic male that I have ever had the displeasure to hear from! I don't care if you and your wife are no longer together, that in no way gives you the right to say that ALL women are evil. Perhaps if you truly believe that then you are troubled and should seek professional help. This little question of yours was obviously the hate letter that you were dieing to give to your ex, but didn't have the guts to. I hope that you realize that women aren't all bad, but I in no way pity you.
Here is where I would normally say "BEST OF LUCK" but something tells me that you need more than luck to get over your ex-wife.
2006-11-11 12:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I understand that you have been run through the mill but I am here to say that NOT all women out here are liars. I have had a couple very bad experiences with a couple of men and I do not clump all men into one category. It is women like your ex that give us all a bad name and that isn't fair. But there are the honest ones out here that will tell you the same thing.
2006-11-11 13:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is your reality and I am sorry you got so screwed over and are now feeling so jaded. I hope it gets better for you. However, you need to accept responsibility in this "you choose her" She was who she is when you met her, she just hid it very well. Good luck to you in the future, there are some good women in the world. And some bad ones, just as with the men. God Bless
2006-11-11 12:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your wife treated you terrible but not all women are like this dont give up on us. Your wife was wrong for treating you this way. If i were to ever get divorced I wouldnt take a thing but I want our kids to live w/ me and I want some pictures that have so much meaning my husband busts his buttt o give us everything and I wouldnt take away what he has worked so hard for and i wouldnt ever take away our kids. So you see not all of us are bad.
2006-11-11 13:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are bad men just like there are bad women. Don't believe all women are like her. We're not. Some of us are really great.
2006-11-11 12:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you blame all women for what one bad woman did to you? thank god you feel this way because it pretty much guarantees that you will never find a good woman because you certainly don't deserve one.
2006-11-11 12:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, she screwed you over pretty good, didn't she. You are awfully bitter. There are good women out there, you just need to know where to look.
2006-11-11 12:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by ladysteelersince1976 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not all women are bad. remember that your mom,grandmother sister,etc is a woman also......
there are good ones just keep looking
2006-11-11 12:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by donald k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋