Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

My brother has always been our mother's favorite. He makes more money than I and can buy her anything she wants. She prefers to do things with him and they always say I love you to each other. They leave me out of their conversations. My mom has said I remind her of my dad, which she had divorced, so maybe that has something to do with it. I live with her, my brother doesn't. He doesn't see all the many things she gripes about all the time and I think her griping and complaining has put stress on my relationship with her. My brother comes over every day to visit (he lives next door). They go in her room and shut the door, leaving me completely out. I've asked her before why he's her favorite but she denies it. My brother always has to be hero. She recently went the hospital with cancer and had surgery. My brother had to take over the situation and acted like he's the only one that can help her or do things for her. The rejection is painful but I hate to break all ties with her.

2006-11-11 05:20:29 · 9 answers · asked by Gayle 4 in Family

I have asked this question twice and both times it has been removed. It's simple curiosity.

2006-11-11 05:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while. We are both 14. We make out and kiss a lot. We french kiss. What else can we do?

2006-11-11 05:20:08 · 5 answers · asked by SimpsonsLover 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 9 years. I was never in love with him to begin with. but thats a whole nother issue...bascially we argue a lot and I have zero sexual attraction to him, and he knows it. Sometimes we can really get along as friends and we we also have a beautiful 7 year old daughter together. I would have been divorced by now were it not for her. I met a man 4 years ago and i have been madly in love with him ever since. We had an affair together and I tried to break it off several times but everytime, I would find myself crying over him because I really do love him. Currently, i broke it off with him, but my heart is DYING. Is leaving my husband the wrong or the right thing to do?is it me being selfish? should I just stay married and tuff it out? WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO? follow my heart and hurt a lot of people including and most important- my daughter? or do I proceed with my broken marriage and give up love? I cry about this every day almost. I want to be honest

2006-11-11 05:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 05:19:54 · 18 answers · asked by Stephen C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

one that doesn't look like you. for example, he thinks your attractive, but in the past dated only really skinny chicks or people with a certain hair color? does this happen?

2006-11-11 05:19:11 · 5 answers · asked by kendra w 2 in Singles & Dating

What's some kind of peace offering I could take to my boyfriend to apologize for a stupid fight? It was all his fault and this situation totally calls for him bringing me flowers, but since I know that won't happen, what is the male equivalent that I can do for him? How long do I wait to try to clear the air? Thanks!

2006-11-11 05:17:41 · 13 answers · asked by graybear 4 in Singles & Dating

After a little over 5 months of dating (read previous questions I've asked to follow my story) my relationship with my guy has been a very good one, but an odd one. We still do not call each other boyfriend/girlfriend, and it has a lot to do with the fact that at the 3month stage, we had a conversation about where this was going, and we both determined that this was not going to be serious, and that we could date other people, etc. I knew he had been talking to his ex-girlfriend (the one he dated for over 3 years) frequently, but then 2 weeks ago, he suddenly said that he has never in his life dated 2 people at the same time, and he couldn't imagine me doing it either. I interpreted this as he wanting to be 'exclusive,' and we have been acting like a couple anyway (I hadn't seen other people, and he hasn't either since we started dating), and so I was happy, although it was a very indirect way of talking. In the course of the 5months, this was the first time he had ever brough up

2006-11-11 05:16:52 · 13 answers · asked by ohsoconfused 2 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this girl i really liked. Well as it turned out she was a complete bit-ch. She constantly started fights with me and did nothing but insult me and treat me like dirt. She then dumped me for no reason. Well i go to college and i met this girl who just turned 21. She asked me if i wanted to go celebrate with her. i ended up getting drunk and having sex with her. Well somehow my ex found out and came to my house and just blew up at me. i'm like wtf you dumped me that means i get to do what i want. Why do women care what the guy does after you break up with him??? I mean what did you think we were going to do, just lounge around in self pity. Hell no were going to go out and make ourselves happy.

2006-11-11 05:15:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It has been a year since we broke up and I have dated other girls but i cant seem to get over her. I miss her so much.

2006-11-11 05:15:45 · 19 answers · asked by jrwilcarter 1 in Singles & Dating

i have liked this guy at my school for two years! and never told him how i feel because i am afriad about what he will say and how it will affect us throughout high school!!
we have been friends for a while and if i tell him it might cange our friendship!
what should i do??

2006-11-11 05:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by pinky02 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 05:15:25 · 16 answers · asked by ~deelishis kisses~ 1 in Family

I'm a 17 year old senior in high school, and for the last year and a half I've had a crush on this girl. But as I began to get to know her, she became one of my best friends. My feelings for her haven't changed though. I still love her. I still find myself thinking bout her at every free moment that I have. For God's sake, it's 2:37 in the morning and I'm up talking about her. There's just so much about her that I love, and I want to tell it all to her; how just seeing her smile makes me smile, how when she laughs I can't help but laugh back, how her beauty is what I imagine angels to look like. I want to tell her, but I just don't know if it's worth it. What if i tell her and she says no? Things would be awkward, and I just know that our friendship would be ruined. But, what if she says yes? I know I could never forgive myself if I don't tell her how I feel. But, though I may not know that much about love, I also know that I would rather have her as a friend than as nothing at all.

2006-11-11 05:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by screwsinhip 3 in Singles & Dating

Every morning after brushing her teeth my wife rinses with a mouthwash, it clearly states on the bottle to rinse, gargle, then SPIT OUT, but she refuses saying it'll carrying on working if it stays in her body. I need to know is there any danger in this???

2006-11-11 05:14:21 · 33 answers · asked by qcumber man 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i left my abusive husband when my son was 3 months old.. im now dating a guy that i have knew for 3 years... my x has no rights to my son anymore... and my boyfriend is excited about my son being his too.... he even shows pple my sons pic and tells pple that he is his... we are talking about marriage, but are not engaged yet.... shoud i feel funny about him telling pple that my sons is his.. or is okay for me to be excited (which i am) about our future as a family together!? it would make me happy for my son growing up thinking the my boyfriend is his father... my boyfriend is resecptable, and will b out of phamacy school in september!? i'm a nurse he will be able to help me to provide for my son.. or should i be saying "our" son!?

2006-11-11 05:13:59 · 6 answers · asked by hopelessly_in_love 2 in Family

2006-11-11 05:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Vanessa G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How is on now I'm so bbbbboooooorrreeeeeeeedd.

2006-11-11 05:12:37 · 2 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Friends

help

2006-11-11 05:12:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or, do they just want to look all cool when they are with them?

2006-11-11 05:11:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have 4 kids together.

2006-11-11 05:11:01 · 8 answers · asked by rebeccacmmns 1 in Marriage & Divorce

.. . . . . . . and WHY ?
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2006-11-11 05:11:00 · 26 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Family

I recently started talking to a 22 year old, female, divorcee. Unknown to me I thought her divorce had occured a while ago so thought she was ready to date. I asked her out and we catched a movie and got to know each other. After that I asked her out again but she didnt feel like going out that particual day. One night she calls me and completely opens up. It turns out that her seperation occured only a month ago so she is still getting through it all and going through the emotional roller coaster. I figured I might as well tell her how I feel about her, too. So I did. I exlained to her that eventhough Id like her and would love to get to know her more, Im going to back off and give her all the space and time she needs. She said that when she felt better, she'd ask me to go out. I really like this girl but I dont know what to do. Am I waiting in vain? Will she really go out with me again? Any advice anyone can give will greatly help me.

2006-11-11 05:10:00 · 9 answers · asked by Hal Jordan 2 in Singles & Dating

first me n my bf dont go to the same skool and we have been goin out for 6 months this month!!!! and this girl goes to his skool!!! k well at the football game last week she was all over my man!!! (it really pissed me off!!! i almost layed her out!!) yet my bf didnt do anything about it!!!!!! what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE I NEED HELP AND FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-11 05:09:10 · 10 answers · asked by COW GIRL 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-11 05:08:46 · 8 answers · asked by kendra w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He invited me to the movies, to rollerskating, paintball, and a lot of other fun dates. But my mom distrusts both of us and thinks I'll get pregnant. She refuses to even meet him. What can I do/say to get her to let me hang out with my boyfriend?

2006-11-11 05:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by Riot Act 1 in Singles & Dating

Im about to marry the most loviest woman in the world.

2006-11-11 05:08:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have met some many guys online and it seems I can't get past date one. Most of the dates went well, mostly just simple coffee dates, and a few dinner dates, but it seems that they bring me home say they enjoyed meeting me an I never hear from them again. I am honest in my profile and look like my photos and try to be upbeat and ask them questions. The dates go ok but never get any further. These guys are in their 40's and 50's so they aren't kids. Does anyone else have this problem too? I have looked up most of the guys I have met and they still have their profiles on months later so I guess no one else was good enough for them either. It is me or is it them? I just get discouraged even meeting anyone because I know I am wasting my time and effort. If they aren't interested in finding someone why do they have any ad on?

2006-11-11 05:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

Yeah i have this lil problem everytime i have sex with a man and when i want him to get off me. What can i do or say to make him get off and stop ? . I been dating a guy and everytime we f*** and when i cant taik it no more i tell him to stop and get off he doest wantu. So what are some ways to make him stop.

2006-11-11 05:06:47 · 27 answers · asked by ~::~Ariana~::~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I figure someone has to have the final say and it seems to make sense that the man should have the final say in things. After all governments that tried to have two emperors or kings with equal power always failed. Am I right?

2006-11-11 05:06:11 · 21 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Marriage & Divorce

beacuse me and my boyfriend wnat to know that if i allready broke my hymen if we have sex if it will hurt agin?

2006-11-11 05:05:32 · 8 answers · asked by aaaashley_jameson 1 in Other - Family & Relationships