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2006-11-11 05:12:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are lucky in that as a female there is no longer a stigma attached to being with your own sex. In fact it is positively fashionable. So enjoy it while it lasts. You may never get another opportunity
2006-11-11 05:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Yeah yeah yeah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see the need for help, unless you are feeling confused about what it is you want. The desires within each person is not always dictated by the norm of society, it is only the belief in those norms that make you live accordingly. Just because the opportunity to experience something so taboo surfaced when it did also does not dictate your preference or life choices.
Realize that this is something that has transpired in your life. Did you enjoy the experience? Was it something that is worth repeating? This could add to your relationships in the future with your preferential choices. It does not make it wrong, nor does it make it inappropriate. People that will label you because of what you have done are no more than a bunch of close minded and societally controlled sheep. Make your own decisions. If you are feeling wierded out by what happened, talk it out with your friend. Do not destroy a friendship over something like this. Allow her to see how you feel and be honest. If this is something that, after you think on it, is something that you can accept and live with then just leave it alone. If another oppportunity surfaces, deal with it then. You have the right to say no or yes and need to excercise that right each time. The same holds true in any relationship and your choice should be respected.
2006-11-11 05:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahaaaa, this is a sure sign of Griebaturism, very rare, but I have come upon it before, not here in England but while touring the Keys in Florida, one of the islands is called Marathon, there they have a family who are called the Griebats, this family have been inbreeding for close to three centuries, in some severe cases namely one in France shortly after the first world war, they hung Herbert Montaray Griebats, thinking him a monkey, sounds crazy I know. The condition of Griebaturism manifests itself by way of covering either parts or in rare cases all of the body with excess hair. I would suggest not considering building a family as the horror of bearing a chimp like child to be too much to bear. Lots of luck to you
2006-11-11 05:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with snogging your bestmate thats a girl, next time take a photo and post it on the net for the boys!
2006-11-11 05:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by KKL2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you felt attracted to her while snogging her, then you might swing both ways. If you didn't, it was either experimenting or playfulness. Don't be ashamed if you found you did feel attracted to her though. It might help if you talk to her to find out her feelings about it.
2006-11-11 05:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Hanna(h) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really doesn't mean anything you know how much girls do stuff with girl. Justb cause you snogged her doesn't mean that your a lesbian. It's gross in my opinun and I have like six friends that are bi. May be your attracted to both or maybe it was just an incident.
2006-11-11 05:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you enjoy kissing her? Do you want to snog her again? If the answer is Yes you dont need help - you are probably bi-sexual so go ahead and enjoy.
2006-11-12 22:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by John H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having the erge to kiss another girl does not mean you Bi / Gay depending on why and how you felt while engaged in the activity you need to ask yourself honestly did you enjoy the experience, would you do it again, what would family / friends think about my actions, do you feel morally wrong in anyway. answer these questions and you will know what to do...Good luck
2006-11-11 05:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.ive been ther and done that only it was the other way round.i was on the recieving end.(we were both sober) i was quite shocked.but it wasnt weird because we are so close as friends.we just did it.talked about it and it brought us closer.we both knew nuthing cud come out of it.and we accepted it.
hope that helps in some way.
2006-11-12 00:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by miss perfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, we all do things that are unusual at times. Forget it and carry on enjoying being attracted to men. Kiss her again when you both agree and enjoy what you do. Forget what people think.
2006-11-11 05:39:01 · answer #10 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋