I'm a 17 year old senior in high school, and for the last year and a half I've had a crush on this girl. But as I began to get to know her, she became one of my best friends. My feelings for her haven't changed though. I still love her. I still find myself thinking bout her at every free moment that I have. For God's sake, it's 2:37 in the morning and I'm up talking about her. There's just so much about her that I love, and I want to tell it all to her; how just seeing her smile makes me smile, how when she laughs I can't help but laugh back, how her beauty is what I imagine angels to look like. I want to tell her, but I just don't know if it's worth it. What if i tell her and she says no? Things would be awkward, and I just know that our friendship would be ruined. But, what if she says yes? I know I could never forgive myself if I don't tell her how I feel. But, though I may not know that much about love, I also know that I would rather have her as a friend than as nothing at all.
2006-11-11 05:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by screwsinhip 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you said she can say no but the worst thing that could happen is you not beineg able to forgive yourself that you didnt ask her and tell her how you feel about her and that you lost the chance. You know after all she may say yes :-D. Pluck up your courage and tell her how you feel! Best of luck to you! :)
2006-11-11 05:20:51 · answer #1 · answered by smart_girl_pl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are 17. You both are probably (or at least one of you are) going to go to college after you graduate. I would suggest just remaining good friends throughout school. If you do decide to tell her it might scare her off, but then again if you do and she leaves for school after she graduates it could make for a hard relationship. It is a decision you need to make, you know her we don't. Just do what you think is best and if she says yes then cool and if not something may work out in the future.
2006-11-11 05:22:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25 now. In high school my best guy friend wanted to date, and I said no because I didn't want to risk our friendship. We are still very close friends. We were able to stay friends and things weren't awkward. I think you should risk it. If she says no I think your friendship can withstand it. And if she says yes you won't regret it. Best wishes and good luck.
2006-11-11 05:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by raintigar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one you sound like a real sweet heart and if your really as sweetas you sound theni think you should go for it youll never know until u try. she might have the same feelings and just wants to see if youll make the first move. sit her down in private one day and let her know how you feel. let her know that if she does not feel the same way that you still want to be as good of friends as yall are know.
2006-11-11 05:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Oh2Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is always worth the risk. go for you never know what might happen but if shes the one everything will be allright. she might feel the same :-) good luck!!
2006-11-11 05:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to take the risk, if you are willing to take the bad along with the good, then yes....it's worth it. Good luck.
2006-11-11 05:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted you, she would show it...Maybe not outright, but she would give you signs. You telling her anything won't change how she feels.
2006-11-11 05:32:19 · answer #7 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love you do think about risks and who deserves what.... if she says yes... You will see how happy you are... if no... you always can be friends... Go ahead, guy...
2006-11-11 05:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋