Ok so me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while. We are both 14. We make out and kiss a lot. We french kiss. What else can we do?
2006-11-11 05:20:08 · 5 answers · asked by SimpsonsLover 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you specifically mean, what else can you do to express your physical attraction to each other. Keep in mind that the only truly safe sex is abstinence. Now with that said, what ever you do, make sure the both of you are on the same page. It has to be fun for the both of you and the minute it stops being fun or becomes uncomfortable you guys need to back off. You should always get to know each other, that involves talking honestly and open, honest responses to each other's body language, looks, smiles, frowns and the like. You can and should explore each other's emotions, responses to touch, sights, sounds, smells and each other's bodies, as long as the both of you agree to it. For example, kiss her on the nape of her neck and see how she likes it, savor the sight and scent of her when you do. When you hold her hands, give it new meaning by enjoying her touch and explore her hands, from front to back just by holding it in your hands. Just enjoy her company and watch her as she talks, smiles, frowns, laughs. Physically take in her hugs and kisses with all of your senses. Explore things like massages or back and body rubs and enjoy each other's touch, contours and the feeling of your partners hands or body. Like a fine wine, your woman is to be enjoyed, savored and appreciated for all the richness and complexity she's got to offer, not just because you think she's hot. I don't want to particularly be an advocate for sex between minors but should you guys decide to choose that route on your own, make sure you use a condom. Condoms aren't a guarantee of anything but they will keep you safer than using nothing at all, especially if you don't want to deal with pregnancy or STI's. If you do choose to have sex and want to use lubricant, be careful of the type of lube you use as spermicidal based lubes corrode the vaginal lining and may irritate the both of you guys. Once again, I don't think sexual intercourse of any kind, including oral, vaginal or anal sex should be rushed into, especially by minors but should the BOTH of you make that choice, make sure it's because it's what the both of you want and not because there's pressure from anywhere.
2006-11-11 06:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by swamijie1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
at the moment the best thing u can do together is study..apart from that u can always go for lunch..surprise her with a lot of gifts...if u cant afford gifts since ur 14...u can give her lot of love letters that she can teasure till later yrs...
i think giving her a lot of chocolates will also make her happy..since u'll are still kids..
where did u learn to french kiss by the way!!
2006-11-11 13:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by koolnsj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would take her out on dates, to many different places, amusement parks, movies, go shopping with her, go to a romantic play, have a picnic, sit at home and talk, introduce her to your parents, make her feel like she is the world, if you dont belive in sex at your age its ok, my best adivice is dont pressure her into doing anything!!! make her feel as if she were the world and dont let her go, write a poem to her, leave her many voicemails and have as much fun as possible, explore dating possibilities, sometimes just sit and talk to her, make her feel like you can trust her, because that will get you the farest.
2006-11-11 13:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by casey b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a walk, go to the movies, go bowling, study
2006-11-11 13:23:00 · answer #4 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing else that is really intimate at your age. Try doing things with her that you would do with friends, like movies or bowling.
2006-11-11 13:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋