What's some kind of peace offering I could take to my boyfriend to apologize for a stupid fight? It was all his fault and this situation totally calls for him bringing me flowers, but since I know that won't happen, what is the male equivalent that I can do for him? How long do I wait to try to clear the air? Thanks!
2006-11-11 05:17:41 · 13 answers · asked by graybear 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it is he who should apologize i dont see the benefit of you groveling to him just because you are aware he wont apologize to you. what you are saying is,,"treat me as you wish and i will beg your forgivness" is that who you want to be? if you dont want to be that person dont contact him,,wait till he contacts you,,it will allow you to assess just how much he cares and if it shows he doesnt care a tot,,why bother,,surely you deserve someone who says they,re sorry when they make a mistake?
2006-11-11 05:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Get off of this "it's all his fault"--you're not ready to apologize if you still think it's his fault. If you think that it's all his fault, you need to spend some time thinking about what happened.
2) How about talking with him? You don't need to bring a gift as a peace offering. How about going over to him after a few days (let him cool down) and explain to him that you are sorry that you hurt his feelings or whatever happened?
3) Also, sometime, talk to him about it. Obviously you are still upset about it. Wait about a week, but you both need to figure out what happened. COMMUNICATE! One part of communication is to listen--you need to talk honestly and listen just as much. If you care about him, you'll listen.
2006-11-11 05:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well give him a warm hug and tell try to go out for some trip , or invite him for a movie or dinner u dont need to apologize for every thing , just show him that u love him, there are no apologies in love
2006-11-11 05:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by engr_ehsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hugs and kisses along with those all too rare words that gfs seldom tell their bfs, "I'm sorry."
But in this case, you still blame him. Be realistic and consider that part of it is your fault as well. You can't blame him for everything. Own up and take some responsibility then appologize for your portion.
2006-11-11 05:20:16 · answer #4 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he caused the fight,it was his fault but your inability to restrain yourself is your fault.Apologize to him because you surprised him with your temper,he wasn't arranging a fight you and nobody.
He started the fight but there was no one was hurt,you fought and someone was hurt so who pays for that?
No one pays for other people's actions so you pay for yours.
Apologizing is no a big deal for an offender,just do it.
2006-11-11 05:26:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for no fault of urs?? girl... ur outta ur mind.. if ur guy has ego that he cant own up his mistake... u can very well do the same.. if he really feels guilty and misses u, he'll apologize to u..
2006-11-11 05:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Meooww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what my friend do when she gets in a fight with her husband. Cook him a good dinner and talk about the fight but use careful words. What's more meaningful to you: kissing him or fighting with him?
2006-11-11 05:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Iileen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares whos fault it was the thing is just go ahead and tell him ur sorry eather u say sorry or him first someone has 2 make a move first eather is u or him or just let time passed by u decide
2006-11-11 05:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i'm correct the male equivalent toflowers is make up sex
just you don't have to give him flowers before you give him make up sex
2006-11-11 05:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
alter that behavior
a honest face to face apology.
take him to dinner and be special to him.
2006-11-11 05:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋