Family & Relationships - 11 November 2006

I met this guy online about 7 months ago we start out as friends. he have seem my picture and he promise me that I will see his haven't happen. Its like he always make excuses concerning his picture. we have talk on the phone several times and he has said he's has fallen in Love with me but I don't believe him. I have sent him all kind of e-card telling him how I feel about him. he want to meet me in person but I really don't trust him in that way. he's very intelligent and charming he could be the man of my dreams. and another thing I am concern about is age I am 57 and he's 30. I haven't ever dated a guy around that age. I have two adult children. the last night I talk with him on the phone was last friday and I went to sleep as he was talking with me. I have sent him pictures of my grandchildren I have five which he aready knows I have a granddaught who is 22 and grandson who is 21 a granddaughter that is 14 one is 11 and another grandson that's 11. makebe I have ran him off.
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2006-11-11 05:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by Joyce W 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend, suggested i have a foursome with LindsayS and Candidworker and Brystal and see if I liked it and that that was the only way i would know for sure! I am willing to try it to resolve this question about my sexuality ..what would you do?

2006-11-11 05:57:37 · 18 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

He seems to get more turned on when i wear a skirt and high heel boots when we get it on in the bedroom than when i am just naked! Is this some sort of fetish that he has? Does he not find me attactive enough without dressing up??

2006-11-11 05:55:49 · 32 answers · asked by claire c 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 05:55:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think my boyfriend would like it if I wrote him a poem expressing my love for him? I always tell him I love him, but I wanna express it differently so I wanna express it on paper now and give it to him. And if guys do like those kinda things, what do you think they'd wanna read in the poem??

2006-11-11 05:55:11 · 3 answers · asked by DBZ gangsta 1 in Singles & Dating

anything from a tv programme to shoes,trainspotting or beer to porn.. whatever...;0)

2006-11-11 05:54:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my girlfriend and i have been together now for a month and i usually dont say i love you but in this case i cant help it cause there is no other words to describe how i feel and like just does not do it justice. She says she doesnt know how she feels which is understandable cause she has been out of a ten year marriage for about ten months now and wants to be sure about how she feels before she says it. she says she is better at showing how she feels wrather than saying it. we only see each other about twice a month but we talk every day im confident that im the only one she is seeing. sooo my question is if i keep telling her i love her and how i feel will that help things and help her open up to me she says she really likes it when i tell her how beautiful she is and how much i love her sooo whatcha think i know im in love thats obvious hehe

2006-11-11 05:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by David R 1 in Singles & Dating

2 years ago I met this guy in Ireland, we had amazing sex. We have been chatting now for 2 years, and he was thinking about coming over to visit me in latin america. I have started to like him, but I think he is only looking for sex. He is only 24 and I am 29, is this worth pursuing?

2006-11-11 05:53:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was it worth it? How did the relationship with the other woman turn out? Was it a mistake or not?

2006-11-11 05:53:35 · 1 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked this question;

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj.WOzfzeKuw77AUccpLi68gBgx.?qid=20061111093454AAD8wIl

u see i know this fellow he is from yemen. at first he got to know me he was shocked that i was not middle eastern at all.. because he thought i was one .. somehow i think hes interested because i look like a middle eastern but am not one ..

den when we met his parents.. his parents though i was too and wondered why i can't speak arabic at all i can sense their disapproval when i tell them i am not arab or whatsover..

i got to know from my friend that his mom hinted .. to him that he will find him a wife if he can't find one and u can take her(refering to me) as a second wife..

i was so stunned .. can't believe people still have this kind of thinking.. ..

people nowadays.. sigh..

2006-11-11 05:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for exactly a year now.ive been talking to this girl,.she has a boyfriend....and we only talked as friends, but then i got to know her and she got to know me, and i fell in love with her, and she did too. she was very close to leaving him for me but something happened. they stated working things out, this didnt mean that things between me and her werent still the same. i would go visit her once in a while but nothing ever happened. until one day after not seeing her for almost 3 months i was like...i need to see you. and we had a wonderful time ;)now the problem is shes about to be one year with her boyfriend and shes trying to let me go, but shes not sure she can, and i CANT let her go. im not being an asshole and tryin to break them up, im just goin with what makes her happy, i told her how i feel and how i cant imagine me without her but she feels she cant say she love me no more what do i do? i cant let go...i jsut cant.. i know she still loves me..how can i walk away from that?

2006-11-11 05:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by lovin_mi_fresa 1 in Singles & Dating

My dad never tells me he loves me or anything. We get along then we fight i dont understand!!!! and he always make s me cry!!! WHAT IS THE DEAL!!!!??????!!!!

2006-11-11 05:52:12 · 2 answers · asked by sexiiredneck08 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 05:51:47 · 18 answers · asked by annu k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel so uncertain and sad most of the time that I don't know what to do. I am in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage and I have heard that it is not my fault that it's something within him that causes this. I still feel that if I were sweeter and does what he wants that my marriage would be better. He calls me names, degrades me, doesn't care about my opinions and puts his family ahead of me. He says that I'm nothing to him compared ot his family. He won't even buy me a new winter coat unless I practically have to sweet talk him into it. Then he'll turn around and tell me to give him everything back that he has given to me and that I don't appreciate him. Yesterday he made me give him back the boots and clothes that he has bought me over the past year. Then when his dragon(rage) is napping, he'll be mr niceguy and he throws me for a loop ; emotional rollercoaster. I feel so scared to finally leave. I feel guilty and like a failure. PS, 2 kids 6 & 4. We're 34- 13yrs 2gether

2006-11-11 05:51:31 · 24 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my parents force me to go to mass every Sunday and "holy day". Including those ones that I've never heard of. I'm 17 now and I think I should be allowed to make my own choices, but no. It's my dad's fault anyway. He's the one who has us going to mass all the bloody time. If I told my parents that I didn't believe in God (I don't know what to believe and I don't care either, I'm happy enough to wait until I die to find out) they'd (or HE would) probably go crazy. I understand it's what they believe in but they can't go shoving their religious crap down my throat and then getting angry when I complain. I know my mum wouldn't mind what I believe in but she still shouts at me when I try to talk about it because it's what my dad wants and everything seems to be up to him. I'm afraid to talk to anyone now because nobody will listen. Sorry I sound horrible and I don't mean any offence, I probably am in the wrong but I get so angry about having to keep my mouth shut.

2006-11-11 05:51:21 · 13 answers · asked by Miffed 1 in Family

2006-11-11 05:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by ASHA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know if that was a smart idea or not..wut if he doesnt like me back and then i am stuck with him?? ~lost~

2006-11-11 05:51:05 · 5 answers · asked by ♥lifes just another fairytale♥ 2 in Friends

2006-11-11 05:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by annu k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 05:49:30 · 18 answers · asked by sexiiredneck08 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 05:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by Yeah yeah yeah 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok we were in class and he was butt-butting me in a game (that wasnt needed) then at a FFA convention he was asking me if I could see his nipple through his shirt...and he was nervous about doing it because his friend had to push him closer to me and he said "just ask her dude" and then he asked me if i could see his nipple and i said i don't know...but then he deleted me on yahoo messenger
i think he likes me but doesnt want to talk to me when we are alone but likes to talk to me when we are in a group of people what do u think??

2006-11-11 05:47:03 · 2 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-11 05:47:00 · 2 answers · asked by annu k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-11 05:46:29 · 21 answers · asked by Ikila b 1 in Family

yet, he is no longer intereseted in sex, only when he wants it very seldom, i came to bed naked last night and rubbed all over him and he did nothing but, say he was tired and rollover, i know that i can satisfy myself, but i want him, we've spiced it up before, but he doesn't even seem interested. I am only 26 years old, hes 29 help!

2006-11-11 05:44:56 · 14 answers · asked by sick of fakes.. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do they want women for love or not?

2006-11-11 05:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by dong ai rui 2 in Singles & Dating

i know it is only hair colour and doesnt really matter.. it is the personlaity that truly counts.. but im just wondering, which do you prefer? blondes or brunettes? ive been both and whenever im blonde i wanna go brown and when im brunette i wanna go blonde again haha. i love both colours, but who is hotter?

2006-11-11 05:43:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do i do when my bf stinks up the room between the sheets? like i wanna puke!how do i fix this problem!

2006-11-11 05:42:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this guy best friend who I met the 2nd Semester of my Freshman year of High School. Ever since the day I met him, something clicked and as the months went on, the more I feelings for him developed. He has a girlfriend who told him to stop being friends with me and even came up to me and told me to stay away. I am so in love with him but I want him to be happy and have the best so for about a month I didn't talk to him or anything. He came up to me a few times and asked me why I wasn't talking to him but instead of answering him, I looked at him with painful eyes and walked away. His girlfriend is now supposedly pregnant. The worst part about all of this is that he has been playing with my feelings since Freshman year. I am now a Junior. He has always known how I felt about him and I even told him a few weeks ago that I am in love with him. He told me that he liked me more than a friend and for many days, he came over to hang out and one day I finally got up the nerve to kiss him

2006-11-11 05:42:12 · 16 answers · asked by ILoveSimplePlan23 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, im 19 years old and my girlfriend of 1 year just dumped me. we have been friends on and off and had atrractions for one another since 6th grade. threw thick and thin. Now the other night she says that she is unhappy. I suffer with depression and i had to drag her through it. I am now almost 1 month into medication and i feel alot better and am improving. She knows this as well but she says she is scared things wont change. i know that she loves me with all her heart. i miss her so much and i feel that She is the one for me. I do not wish to let her go. People say let her go but thats not what i want to do. She is to the point where i belive she is agitated just talking to me. She has began working alot and she says that she needs time for what she wants to do. She wants to work, shop etc and not worry about a boyfriend. she also says sinc e we began dating we have both dumped all of our friends for each other. Nether of us have anyone now. I cant do this alone. I really do miss he

2006-11-11 05:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl in school (high school) and ever since she started flirting with me, I have begun to like her more and more. However, she's the very flirty type and I'm not sure if she really likes me as more than a friend. Now, however, I think it's clear to her that I like her as more than a friend. Because of this, she acts a little different towards me. She doesn't totally ignore me, but she seems a little more shy (she isn't normally the shy type). One time, she walked up to me in between our double period of class (during the break), and just randomly said "hiiii" and asked me what my shoe size was and tried to compare our shoe sizes next to each other, and then left when the bell rang. Well, I was just wondering how some of you girls might respond to a guy that likes you if you liked him too.

2006-11-11 05:41:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating