I met this guy online about 7 months ago we start out as friends. he have seem my picture and he promise me that I will see his haven't happen. Its like he always make excuses concerning his picture. we have talk on the phone several times and he has said he's has fallen in Love with me but I don't believe him. I have sent him all kind of e-card telling him how I feel about him. he want to meet me in person but I really don't trust him in that way. he's very intelligent and charming he could be the man of my dreams. and another thing I am concern about is age I am 57 and he's 30. I haven't ever dated a guy around that age. I have two adult children. the last night I talk with him on the phone was last friday and I went to sleep as he was talking with me. I have sent him pictures of my grandchildren I have five which he aready knows I have a granddaught who is 22 and grandson who is 21 a granddaughter that is 14 one is 11 and another grandson that's 11. makebe I have ran him off.
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2006-11-11 05:57:49 · 14 answers · asked by Joyce W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you met this guy on the Internet! come on! he wont let u see his picture! i know you hear about all of the Internet scams and what not out there! be careful
2006-11-11 06:02:32 · answer #1 · answered by donald k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Joyce your a very wise 57 year old anyway for not trusting this guy. But to say that you became friends on line I find a little hard to fathom as you have never even met this fella in person. I was chatting it up with some females a little over three years ago and never once considered them or called them friends. They were strangers to me and as such had my radar up for losers and users. I met one lady for supper and she immediately wanted to move me in with her, I'm physically challenged and she was going on and on about how later in life she would be there to look after all my needs etc. Well this almost scared the hell out of me and was to meet another lady the next night and because of first experience almost did not. Glad I did go to meet the other gal whom I had chatted with on line for a couple of months before she gave me her real name and phone number. We met at a coffee shop halfway between our respected cities and then sat by the rivers edge in the car for hours just chatting and learning of each others live experiences, past, future goals and everything that normal people (here put in person's interruption of normal - Ha!) discuss. We live 2.5 hours away from one and other and continued seeing each other each weekend and speaking on phone daily. Well I'm very happy and proud to say that we are to marry next May and that this relationship has worked out so well. But meeting others on-line can be very dangerous and as such one should be careful of how much information they divulge to others etc. I truly hope that you find happiness in your life and a partner with whom to share it with. Sorry but I do not think that this man who is almost half your age is the one that you will be sharing it with though. He may be a great guy and all the rest or he may be playing you like a fiddle, but I just believe that age difference is far to great. At first you may enjoy the attention that someone this young can give you but eventually you'll see the generation gap and realize that he doesn't even know half the music you do or you his, let alone have much else in common. Sorry to end on such a down note but honesty is my biggest character defect. Ha! Wishing you a good and happy life anyway.
2006-11-11 14:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's something a little off about what you just described. first off, his reluctance to show you a picture of himself and then wanting to meet you in person prior to any pictures sounds fishy. second of all, his telling you he loves you long before you actually met him...frankly it's a tid bit creepy. move on. find someone nice who's willing to make it work because this guy obviously isn't making the effort.
2006-11-11 14:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by FairyPrincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is interesting in your granddaughter who is 22!
2006-11-11 14:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like too old, you could be is mother! He won't show you his picture, maybe because your age (and ADD a zero at the end) is his weight!!!
2006-11-11 14:02:59 · answer #5 · answered by DrPepper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a beautiful girl on line and we exchanged pics and chatted all the time. In the ned...She was a He
2006-11-11 14:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never dated an older woman.. let alone a woman twice as old as me. Are you sure he's not just looking for a sugar momma?
2006-11-11 14:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think long and hard about this relationship Joyce. I am very, very uncomfortable with the situation your describe.
2006-11-11 14:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just rember that meating someone on line isnt the way to meat the man of you'r dreams. tray the singels center at lest you will know that person..... if i wore you i would never trust who you talking to unless you know them ... lision to you'r self ...you never who you'r going to meat even if he sead he loves you. dont bleve him.
2006-11-11 14:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by sosweetman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??? YOU ARE 57 SO YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER. THIS GUY HAS NEVER SENT YOU A PIC BUT YOU SENT HIM PIX OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY???? YOU'RE CRAZY. YOU NEED TO FORGET ABOUT THIS DUDE.
2006-11-11 14:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by KokoCutie272006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋