He seems to get more turned on when i wear a skirt and high heel boots when we get it on in the bedroom than when i am just naked! Is this some sort of fetish that he has? Does he not find me attactive enough without dressing up??
2006-11-11 05:55:49 · 32 answers · asked by claire c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It turns him on, that doesn't mean that he doesn't like you naked or find you unattractive without dressing up, it's just what he likes and it probably a fetish.
2006-11-11 05:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
My daughters are 5 and three and they are dressed like little females with the aid of the undeniable fact that's what they're. No short skirts or halter tops right here. i do no longer purchase clothing on the mall because a million) they're gruesome and 2) my 5 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old does no longer elect to be dressed like a hooker. It teaches them to appreciate others and themselves.
2016-10-16 08:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy has their little fantasies and turn-ons, some are normal and a lot of them are weird. Its probably not that he doesnt like your body or seeing you naked its just that they like for you to "dress up" because a short skirt and boots are really sexy to him. If you have a problem with it then you should say something and if he truly cares he wont have a problem with talking about it, and if you dont then just let him enjoy his fantasy and just know you are making him happy and turning him on.
2006-11-11 06:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by stephanie_kittie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hello Claire, my hubby is similar to your boyfriend. He enjoys it when I wear micromini skirts and stiletto heels. I usually wear the stilettos to bed when were going to have sex. Sometimes he wants me to put on the micro mini also.
Men are very visual creatures and as such they enjoy seeing us.
Some me prefer that we be partially covered instead of completely nude! It's a fetish thing and I found that men like this are much better lovers than most! I hope yours is the same way.
Don't worry about it, enjoy it, play it up and have fun!
2006-11-13 02:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys have certain things they like. Some men like garter belts and nylons. Some like the negligee look. If your man enjoys seeing you in a skirt and boots that's fine. Boots are a real turn on for many men. But the real question is: what is he doing for you in return?
2006-11-11 05:59:21 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shorts skirts and boots are very feminine and very sexy. You could call it kinky or fetish but its certainly is sexy. Naked is sexy too but the clothes leave something to the imagination and something to look forward to...
2006-11-12 15:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, read all ur answers. The general consensus is correct. Don't assume he feels you are lacking something. He likely would make the same requests with any girl he was in a relationship with. (men are more visual) as opposed emotional in their sexuality. This thing he likes is simply that.."it's his thing" Decide for urself how you feel about it ... Hope that helps.
2006-11-11 06:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by gerr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a simple mild fetish..
Nothing to be concerned about..
Kind of cute...
Skirt with or without panties ?
I am sure he finds you very attractive with or without dressing up..
2006-11-11 05:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my ex loved me to wear hose, skirts and boots. he liked to have sex with me wearing boots.
they are all sorts of fetishes. he may have a fetish if it excites him.
if he is, that fetish is very mild. unless it is daily... i would accept it and him.
the question is really if you love him or not.
2006-11-11 06:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by mariecaroline43215 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feel lucky that your guy is sexually excited by you and is into experimenting with kinky things in your sex life. Enjoy it. It's the spice of life. There's nothing wrong with it or you. Your sex life will only get better and better if your open to erotic experimentation.
2006-11-11 06:02:30 · answer #10 · answered by Zig Zag 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋