ok my girlfriend and i have been together now for a month and i usually dont say i love you but in this case i cant help it cause there is no other words to describe how i feel and like just does not do it justice. She says she doesnt know how she feels which is understandable cause she has been out of a ten year marriage for about ten months now and wants to be sure about how she feels before she says it. she says she is better at showing how she feels wrather than saying it. we only see each other about twice a month but we talk every day im confident that im the only one she is seeing. sooo my question is if i keep telling her i love her and how i feel will that help things and help her open up to me she says she really likes it when i tell her how beautiful she is and how much i love her sooo whatcha think i know im in love thats obvious hehe
2006-11-11 05:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by David R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for your support
2006-11-11 06:00:54 · update #1
and thank you again
2006-11-11 06:01:12 · update #2
Her Ex Cheated on her
2006-11-11 06:12:54 · update #3
let her have her time... its hard on us divorced gals... tryin the dating and especially the LOVE thing again... truth of the matter... she probably loves u too.. and is 1 of 2 things... 1.. scared to love again.... or 2... just trying to protect herself....
divorce hurts.... and its naturally for a girl to protect herself afterwards.... shes actually doing really good if its only been 10 months and shes steadily dating one person....
just give her time.. and if u truely love her.. dont give up... but make sure its love.. dont hurt her agian.. or next time she may really give up on guys completely... tell her you love her but not to much.... only when u think she needs to hear it!!!
good luck!!!
2006-11-11 06:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by hopelessly_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, she likes you. She likes your company and she likes your openiness. She just needs some time. What ended her marriage anyhow? By knowing this, you would know how to deal with her. If you don't know, don't pry into her business, unless she opens it up. Very sensitive subject, must handle with care. BUT,...she likes you, but does she loves you. Chances are NOW, probably not. Why? because she is recovering and you've only known her for a month, and only seen her twice or so. For a women to know if she loves a man or not, it's not just talking...it's action. Like real dating. dinner, movies, doing activities like hiking, camping, walks along the beach, being in each other arms. It's the touch and the comfort of the touch that tells a women if he is the one. Chemistry, i tell you!
2006-11-11 06:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by cheery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her know that the way you feel is true and thet you are fine with her not wanting to say it just yet, but that doesn't have to stop you from saying how you feel.
2006-11-11 05:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with telling her how you feel.
2006-11-11 06:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very happy for you. Give her time and be patient and please remember "Actions Speak Louder than Words"!!
2006-11-11 05:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient.
2006-11-11 05:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2006-11-11 05:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋