for exactly a year now.ive been talking to this girl,.she has a boyfriend....and we only talked as friends, but then i got to know her and she got to know me, and i fell in love with her, and she did too. she was very close to leaving him for me but something happened. they stated working things out, this didnt mean that things between me and her werent still the same. i would go visit her once in a while but nothing ever happened. until one day after not seeing her for almost 3 months i was like...i need to see you. and we had a wonderful time ;)now the problem is shes about to be one year with her boyfriend and shes trying to let me go, but shes not sure she can, and i CANT let her go. im not being an asshole and tryin to break them up, im just goin with what makes her happy, i told her how i feel and how i cant imagine me without her but she feels she cant say she love me no more what do i do? i cant let go...i jsut cant.. i know she still loves me..how can i walk away from that?
2006-11-11 05:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by lovin_mi_fresa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Man, your girlfriend is torn btw the two of you. She is confused about what she want's. She is leaning towards him b/c of the time they have put into the relationship and also b/c he has been an active part of her life everyday and he's safe. She knows that to keep this she is going to have to let you go. I don't think she really want's too let you go, but she will sacrifice. The best thing you can do at this point is tell her that you hope everything works out and that you have decided to move on as well. But, tell her that you still want to be friends. I guarantee you within a couple of weeks, maybe a month at the most, she'll be calling you back to get with you. Why? B/c she was lacking something in her current relationship with this guy and this is why she strayed and got with you. Now, she is going to be back at square one and you aren't going to be there. She will freak out!
2006-11-11 06:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by precious girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You heard that song by paula deanda....walk away? Cuz thats what you need to do, and I aint tryin to sound bogus, but if you knew she had a man when u started talking to her, you set yo self up to get hurt, you'll learn not to do that to yo self later! There are SO many other females out there that will appritiate you for you, and you'll be her one and only. Dont settle for being #2 when u can be #1!!! AIGHT?? Stay upnigga, dont walk with yo head down
2006-11-11 06:30:18 · answer #2 · answered by (¯`·._.·[•·.·´¯`·.·• Ariana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your question you said "im just goin with what makes her happy". You have your own answer. I know it is not easy. But eventually you will fall in love with somebody else. In the meantime, keep yourself occuppied -- clubs, hobbies, sports, whatever you like to do.
2006-11-11 06:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking away is exactly what you need to do. She needs to see if she wants to be in her current relationship w/out you as a distraction.
2006-11-11 05:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Vee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋