i have liked this guy at my school for two years! and never told him how i feel because i am afriad about what he will say and how it will affect us throughout high school!!
we have been friends for a while and if i tell him it might cange our friendship!
what should i do??
2006-11-11 05:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by pinky02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he knows it might work out for the good. I liked a guy for 2 years and my guy friends were friends with him too so they told him that I liked him. It didn't seem to change our friendship. Eventually they would tease me about it in front of him. I would get real embarrassed. I think him knowing that I liked him opened him up so down the road if he had feels for me he would just go for it. Thats what happened with me. Of course now we are married and have been for over a year now.
2006-11-11 05:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times I have liked one of my friend girls. A lot of times I never told them, but then I finally decided what could it hurt to find out. So I told a few and nothing became of us, but it didn't hurt our friendship because I told them if they didn't feel the same way to act like it was never mentioned. I have managed to tell two of them and had great relationships with both of them. Stop being scared of how you feel because you'll always wonder what could have happened if you did what your heart was telling you to do. Your heart never steers you wrong. It may cause you pain here and there, but that's how you become the person you are when you finally do fall in love with someone. Hope this advice helps and good luck.
2006-11-11 13:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by michael a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I am going out with someone in HS, and I was her friend for about 3 years before then! Just try and figure out a way that will ask him without being too imposing, but still remaining sincere. If you don't know his phone number, try saying "I lost my phone number, can I have yours?". You could try asking him something like "Do you like me as much as I like you?".
Don't worry, having a boyfriend won't really affect your schoolwork, in fact, alot of people your age do, and they still manage to get good marks. It may or may not jeopardize your friend ship with him, but if you really like him, go ahead. See where things go!
Good Luck,
Zachary Strass
2006-11-11 13:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will change. But u won't know till u try. Plus u won't stay friends either. Well ur already talking to him, I never ever got that far! The school does things, notes, friends, ecrush. And there u go. No risk of rejection. Yeah, u need to or u will regret it. Trust me.
2006-11-11 13:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live with things the way they are because if you haven't got the guts to tell him, then he will never know and nothing will happen. Sure sucks to be you.
2006-11-11 13:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young so it is obvious for the question. Give it time young lady, it will all come to you sooner or never.
2006-11-11 13:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him and if it doesn't go any where remain friends with him , it will only change things if you push it , become a pain for him , know what i mean ?
2006-11-11 13:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to ask and be rejected than never ask and find out 10 years later,after he's married,that he really liked you and was scared to ask
2006-11-11 13:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by chuck m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't want to be friends with girls. Girls may want to be friedns with guys but thats it. I would tell him, chances are he is dying to tell you the same!
2006-11-11 13:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by T B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please have the courage tell him before it is too late you might not no but may be he also likes u and does not no how to express him self
2006-11-11 13:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by pretty princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋