i am only 15 and freshman. the guy i like is 18 and a senior. i dont know what to do. we started off as. then i started to get feelings for him. what should i do? can anyone help with this problem?
2006-11-11 04:04:04 · 20 answers · asked by Felicia D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have sex with him, get pregnant and be miserable for the rest of your or fine someone your own age and have fun while you are young. 15 is to young for a boyfriend of 18 who is just into sex at his age.
2006-11-11 04:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the world of teens, age is a big part of where you are at physically, emotionally, and so much more. I'm a mom of a 15 year old daughter. I was confronted with a similar situation. I will tell you what I told this young man. If you want to date then have your parents and his parents meet. You will need to date in the presence of parents and or go out with a group of friends. Respect is the key and not let the hormones get away from either of you so that you do not create a situation and a baby that will link the two of you together for life. Not to mention the life of this baby that did not ask for this type of start.
The other piece of this is that he should be going off to college and you're still in high school. Relationships like this can work but you both have to be mature and keep things in perspective and be respectful of each other. If you are friends that is a good place to be, perhaps down the road it could become more, but allow yourselves the luxery of growing up and learning about life. Love is an aspect of life but when you love you love for life. If you don't understand that statement, take the time to understand it, I mean really understand the statement before you go further.
Lastly, talk to your parents. Your mother even though you don't think she is a good source, perhaps she is, or maybe not, but there should be a woman that you can talk to and confide in and respect what she has to say, so you can think through this and be wise if a relationship is what the two of you want.
Be good to yourself and others for your life depends on it.
2006-11-11 04:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by PinkLady57 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will tell what I told my daughter two years ago. You are a freshman. What's wrong with dating another freshman or sophomore? The answer: Nothing! Leave the senior alone. When college starts you will soon be forgotten. Best of luck in finding someone more suitable for you.
2006-11-11 04:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by machelle6691 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was only 14 and my boyfriend was 16 when we started dating sure its only 2 years instead of 3 years but I was 1 year younger.. But just because he may be older than you boys do mature slower than girls and this could cause problems in the future if you are still together..Age is just a number as long as he isnt 50...gross!! but go with your heart and honestly many many girls go for older guys...I know I did and we are still together.
2006-11-11 04:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by rkonkin226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for an 18 year old ! It is okay to date at your age as long as there is supervision . Boys are very bad ! Study hard and get good grades and think about the future . Make boys last in your thoughts . Talk to someone older for advice .Go talk to your grandmother and ask her this question .
2006-11-11 04:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how it feels but dating an older guy is just asking for so much trouble! Yes, they are more experienced/mature and older guys know more and it's so much more fun but it's not worth it. This guy could go to jail for just holding your hand or hugging you, we all like people we can't have and that sometimes makes us like him/her more but hun, it's something you can't do. I was really stupid and got my 19 yr old boyfriend in big trouble and I live with that guilt everyday! Plus, if you did go out you would have to sneak around all the time and hide and it is just totally totally not worth it...luckily you're not too into this guy so it's not too late, there are a lot of other guys out there - a guy you can develop a healthy relationship with. You may not see it now but if you go out with him the next thing you know he might talk you into having sex with him, he could take your virginity (assuming you are one),he could go to jail, or even worse, an older guy is more likely to rape you. Remember, emotions blind us and lead us into making wrong choices a lot of the time, please be smart and think this through and just be careful hunny,please!! Good luck!
2006-11-11 04:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had the same problem not too long ago.
You should try and stay distant from him. Most
older guys look for *** more than a relationship.
Not unless you would take the time to get to know
him and realize what a good person he is or how
gay he is and how much *** he wants. I wouldn't
take the risk not unless you are looking for the same
thing as him. Stay friends. good luck sweetie!
2006-11-11 04:13:21 · answer #7 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was a freshman i got together wit my boyfriend now and i was 14(jus turnin 15) and he was 18. we've been together for 2 years and everything is perfect. so dont worry about the age difference unless its a problem for u or him.
2006-11-11 04:12:14 · answer #8 · answered by smalls8802 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with liking someone older than yourself age aint nothin but a # and if you are starting to have feeling for him let him kno cause he just might feel the same about you.
2006-11-11 04:10:45 · answer #9 · answered by Rissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it maybe just a crush you have on this guy I remember when I was young 14yrs old and liked a 21yr old but I found out he did not like me like that but I had a major crush on him for a while until someone else came along, ask the older guy what he thinks of you, nothing wrong with dating an older guy, or younger guy.
2006-11-11 04:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋