i know she is not gonna like it and i feel like i'm disrespecting her for it because it make it seem like i reject black women in favor of the white women. but thats not true. but the prob is that black girls always diss me and the white girls never diss me, so thats why my GF is white.
should I tell my moms? My GF wonna meet her.
2006-11-11 03:44:36 · 22 answers · asked by kwon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Look man, its not like you can hide it. Besides, if she's like most Mothers, no woman you bring him will ever be good enough for you in her eyes, but if she can see that she makes you a better man I'm sure she can accept her and that's really all you can expect.
2006-11-12 01:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't have to explain to us in here why your gf is white. It's called a preference and we are all allowed to have one. Talk to your mom about your girlfriend and let her see how happy you are. Your mom will feel however she wants to feel and I'm sure will let you know if she approves or not. If she doesn't take it well, don't bring your gf around until your mom is ready to meet her. I know it's harder than it seems but I think you will feel relieved once you get this off your chest!
2006-11-11 11:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by evesmystique 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey you should be telling your momma everything about your gf. It is more disrespecting for not telling her anything than admitting that you like someone that doesn't have the same colour of skin as you. The way I look at it is that everybodies blood is the same colour and we all have feelings. Your mom might be upset at first but she'll come around
2006-11-11 11:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a man, she will respect You more for that. It's Your life and Your feelings should see no color. Your girlfriend will respect You more as well. You will also respect Yourself more for living your life for You. i know a white guy who married a black woman in the south some time ago. They loved each other and always smiled.
2006-11-11 11:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by rpone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u and ur mom walk pass a black girl say thats what my gf looks like.....except she white
2006-11-11 11:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by CHELSEA B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell your mother the truth. Once she gets to know your girlfriend, and gets past the fact that she's white, she may surprise herself by liking the girl.
2006-11-11 11:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you should tell your mum that you gf is white but also tell her that you are crazy about this girl of yours and hopefully all turns out well for you both i wish you all the luck in the world
2006-11-11 12:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by dan k 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well thats all good yung bull. but u need 2 tell yo momma how it is, straight up. dont be scerd . once u got a girl u gotta be brave and stand up 4 her.
2006-11-11 11:49:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your GF that you are a racist and so is your mother. If she can handle that news, she won't have any problems meeting your mom.
2006-11-11 12:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you have more than one mother? Go ahead and tell her. What's the worst she could do? 'Least she'll respect you for coming to her 'bout the matter at hand.
2006-11-11 11:51:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lone Eagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋