my favorite cousin wont listen to me...she is always doing something else and she doesnt help me do u think she cares about me?
2006-11-11 03:50:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think she love you,and care about you.But you need to investigate,if she has some personal things to do,and if she is less mature than you.Talk with her,ask her.Communication is the key in family's matters always.Good luck.
2006-11-11 03:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I'm sorry she won't listen to you. Do you mean she won't even give you the time for you to talk to her? Is she really busy or does she just blow you off by acting disinterested in what you have to say? I'd ask her, it's the best way to find out. You might try something like, "I get the feeling you and I aren't really communicating here. I would like to have a good relationship with you, how can we make it happen?" You may have done something to make her angry without realizing it. You say she doesn't help you? How? With her time, money, etc....? I think if you can work on improving the communication between you, you'll get at the heart of the problem as to why she doesn't want to help you. Good luck!
2006-11-11 03:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Gayle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's your cousin,of course she cares about you even if she has an odd way of showing it, she's just acting a little immature, that's all,and if you still think she does care the best thing to do is ask her about it.
2006-11-11 04:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by sexymanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she cares or maybe not. It doesn't matter anyway. She may have good reason why. Have your own way or ask help from others who are willing to help you - whom I guess there are out there. Don't focus your time or efforts on her, don't waste time, divert them to others. better still, learn to be independent. Life is very precious and must go on no matter what.
2006-11-11 04:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by Shirbol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she listen to you and what is it you expect her to help you with?
I don't see how anyone can give you an answer without knowing those things. Just because you say she should without explaining isn't good enough.
2006-11-11 03:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin probably cares, but perhaps doesn't understand that you need more from her.
2006-11-11 03:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think at a certain age we are more preoccupied by our own issues and although we tend to be a little selfish we still care about others
2006-11-11 03:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell you some thing i have cousin to they dint listen either just love them and if you are older just tell them who is boss
2006-11-11 04:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she cares about you but she sounds like a brat
2006-11-11 03:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she don't care of you.
Bye and luck
2006-11-11 03:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by Vick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋